This morning when I dropped off my LO at daycare, I noticed that there were 9 kids in the room (including her). The daycare promised me that the ratio for her room would be 6-1 (its even posted on the room information outside the door), but I wasn't sure what the state max was so I just kind of said "gosh, you have a lot of kids in the room all to yourself this morning hmm?".

I realize it was a little passive aggressive but I didn't want to say something like "hey don't you know the school promised me that the max in the room would be 6-1". However, I just looked up our state regulation and the legal max is actually 7-1 for her age group (12 months - 29 months).

I ended up having to go back to daycare an hour later because I forgot to bring her milk, and by that time there were only 7 kids in the room.

Should I mention it to the daycare owner or the director that there were a lot of kids in the room this morning? I don't want to be threatening and I don't want to get her teacher in trouble. We just started at this daycare a month ago. However, I don't think they should have more than the state mandated # of kids per room.

Would you say something? How would you say it?