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DH keeps asking if we still have a chance of being pregnant

  1. Bookish

    GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts

    FX! Sending good vibes your way

  2. googly-eyes

    GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts

    Just wanted to send you good vibes. I know you don't want to get your hopes up but I did have cramps in the first trimester and some of them were pretty painful (and LO was perfectly healthy.) I know it feels like forever, hang in there!

  3. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    So today is officially CD37 or 19 DPO, still getting on the wondfros. I might switch to HPT tomorrow, if AF doesn't show. I've had cycles of 37 about 3 times in the past year but my normal cycles are usually 33-34 days.

    I'm going to call my RE and see what they suggest. I have scheduled a wellness visit with my GP for this wednesday and they are going to do blood work (blood glucose). Do you think I could ask them to do a beta? Or would I be stepping on my RE's toes by having another doctor do it? I figure I could ask since my GP is taking blood anyway. Maybe they aren't qualified to take betas but I guess I could ask.

  4. spaniellove

    honeydew / 7916 posts

    @bluestriped bee: You could always ask. The only thing I wonder about is how much faster your RE could get you the results compared to your GP, since REs often seem to be set up to give same-day results, while I've heard of annoying delays with GPs!

  5. mrs. bird

    bananas / 9628 posts

    @bluestriped bee: if they're taking blood anyway, i'd just ask them to order one wednesday. fingers crossed you'll have some good news!

  6. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    @spaniellove: Good point. I just left a message with the RE and told her I was going to see an GP on Wednesday. Let see what they suggest.

    @mrs. bird: Thanks, that's what I'm thinking.

  7. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    OMG, this text from the DH just happened:

    "Did Aunt Flo come yet?"

    Haha! I had to chuckle at that. First, I haven't used the word Aunt Flo outloud in a long time. (Well, besides here on the internet but not IRL.) He and I have been saying 'period' for the past week or so. Why did he decide to use AF all of a sudden? So weird...

    I know I mentioned to him months ago that on the internet people use AF or aunt flo to describe their period. I know he has a good memory but today's text and the use of AF was just so RANDOM!!!

  8. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    @bluestriped bee: aw, your husband is adorable. I'm rooting for you!

  9. Espion

    pomegranate / 3577 posts

    @bluestriped bee: Your GP can definitely do a beta! I think you have all of hellobee crossing all of their fingers and toes, myself included!!

  10. MrsKoala

    cantaloupe / 6869 posts

    @bluestriped bee: FX for you!!!

  11. autumnlove

    hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts

    @bluestriped bee: Ha! aunt Flo!

  12. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    @autumnlove: Just realized he spelled it Flo like Allstate's commercial with the annoying sales rep Flo... not like Aunt Flow. Haha!

  13. hellobeeboston

    honeydew / 7235 posts

    @bluestriped bee: omg, your husband is really the cutest.

  14. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    Day 38 (20 DPO) - no AF but with slightly stronger cramps today.
    Forgot to POAS this morning.

    I called the RE and asked them if I could get a beta test with my GP... They never called me back! They are usually so good with calling me back the same day.

    I'm going to call my GP and see if its possible to get a beta with my blood work tomorrow.

  15. pui

    bananas / 9899 posts

    I hope you can get that beta soon! Still seeing BFNs on wondfos? Did you try a FRER?

  16. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    @pui: I forgot to POAS this morning. I don't have any FRER. I should splurge and get one. I have regular POAS HPT but not FRER.

  17. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    @pui: Just picked up a FRER! I'll test when I get to work!

  18. autumnlove

    hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts

    @bluestriped bee: Are you at work yet?! Lol

  19. twodoghouse

    honeydew / 7230 posts

    @bluestriped bee: Fingers crossed for you!

  20. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    @bluestriped bee: Happy peeing Can't wait to hear, fingers/toes crossed for good news!

  21. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    @autumnlove: Lol! Waiting for the bus still. My coworker is running late, if she is not at work, I can test when I get to work. If she is waiting for me, I'll have to wait. Sorry to keep you guys on the edge of your seat!

    Thank you to everyone for all of your support!!

  22. T-Mom

    honeydew / 7488 posts

    @bluestriped bee: FX for you to get some answers! Hopefully a good one!

  23. edelweiss

    grapefruit / 4923 posts

    on pins and needles here!

  24. Sprite

    kiwi / 693 posts

    @bluestriped bee: Keeping all of my toes and fingers crossed very tightly for you!

  25. HLK208

    pineapple / 12234 posts

    @bluestriped bee: ahhh!!! Stalking!!!

    Wondfo's stink. Seriously.

  26. littlek

    GOLD / squash / 13576 posts

    @bluestriped bee: Good luck!!!

  27. oliviaoblivia

    pineapple / 12793 posts

    Sending you as much baby dust as possible! Good luck!

  28. Happygal

    pomelo / 5000 posts

    Oh lordy! Will be checking back in on this thread for sure!

  29. pui

    bananas / 9899 posts

    I keep clicking back in to this thread lol!!

  30. Bookish

    GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts

    @bluestriped bee: AHH! Can't wait to hear!! FX!

  31. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    update!!

  32. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @bluestriped bee: Fingers crossed for you!!

  33. MrsStar

    nectarine / 2994 posts

    Waiting for an update! Good luck!

  34. mrskc

    bananas / 9357 posts

    @bluestriped bee: fingers crossed for you!

  35. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    OMG! I saw all the email replys. I'm sorry for keeping you all waiting.

    Took the test and it's a !

    Then while I was waiting for my results and went to wipe... AF came!

    Double whammy! Boo!

  36. T-Mom

    honeydew / 7488 posts

    Oh... So sorry

  37. autumnlove

    hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts

    @bluestriped bee: I'm so sorry. Lots of hugs...thinking of you and your DH.

  38. MrsStar

    nectarine / 2994 posts

    So sorry!

  39. edelweiss

    grapefruit / 4923 posts

    boo! i am bummed for you. how are you and DH? hoping for a much different result for the next cycle!

  40. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    @T-Mom: @autumnlove: @MrsStar: @edelweiss:
    Thanks guys! I'm sad and disappointed but now I gotta somehow tell the DH... gently. I think that breaks my heart more having to tell him.

    Onto my 3rd and final IUI. Then IVF in January.

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