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I loved it. I was actually feeling a bit sentimental last night about those sweet feedings and nursing him to sleep.
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I don't love it, but don't hate it either. DS is 8 months old and I still don't feel that "omg, this is the best thing ever kind of bond'. I love that I am able to nourish our son via nursing and it's super convenient/
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I love it.
We had our struggles in the beginning, but I am glad we were able to nurse, still going at a year.
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I love it 95 percent of the time. LO's always nursed many times per day and at 14 months we still nurse 7 times a day. I almost always love it but sometimes when she's pulling on and off or playing around a ton, I get frustrated. Thank goodness she STTN because at the end of the day, my tatas need a good break!
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Nope.
She's 11 months and still EBF (well, and solids, obviously) but I've never enjoyed it. It's gotten a bajillion times easier and I'm glad I did it (because I'm not doing it for me, I'm doing it for her) but I'm definitely not all rainbows and unicorns about it. I appreciate that some people do have a magical experience, and I think that's wonderful. That has not been my experience though.
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I voted Neutral. I'm glad I did it, for her, but I didn't feel that great bonding experience everyone talks about and I struggled with supply so when we stopped at 4.5 months it felt amazing!
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Yes, I had a rough start but things improved after the first month.
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I'm neutral about it. We haven't had any difficulty since DD's tongue tie was clipped, but she is pretty pragmatic about her food. She's perfectly happy to get it from whatever source as long as her belly gets full! So I don't think she views it as "cuddle time" and I don't find it to be a particularly bonding experience. If it wasn't so much easier to just pull out a boob, I'd be just as happy to pump and bottle-feed. Even so, I don't dislike breastfeeding, and I do love that my body can provide for DD's needs!
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Love it! I always thought I would not like it, and hoped I would tolerate it. But I really was surprised how much it means to me now.
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Hated it the first time, liked it the second time..
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Love it! We're almost at 17 months and I promised DH I'd try to get rid of the last feed next week. Since I was supposed to wean 5 months ago it's not been a bad run, lol
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Loved it! We weaned at 13 months and was lucky enough to not have any issues the whole time.
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I voted that I liked it. I LOVE actually doing it and I feel fortunate to be able to... but I HATE pumping, so much. Haha. So, I guess that brought it down a notch on the love meter for me, ha!
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With #1, Obviously it sucked in the beginning when dealing with bloody nipples, engorgement, mastitis, etc., but overall, I loved it. She weaned herself at 19 months but still asks to nurse maybe once a week and after 30 seconds bursts out laughing....lol.
With #2, I went back to work at 5 weeks and the whole pumping thing has been a royal pain in the ass. I would say so far, I like breastfeeding and not love it, only because I despise pumping so much.
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@DillonLion: I still think that what you've done for your LO is amazing!!!
I dreaded it at first but totally loving it now and my girl is still feeding 5-6 times a day at almost eighteen months - best part of my day (well that and bedtime!)
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Love it!
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Hated it because it didnt' work, I had to pump which I hated. LO refused to latch, 4 different LCs couldn't even get her to do it. It hurt & I never got that bond with her since she was in NICU and we needed her to eat we pumped and fed her through a syringe/bottle.
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Love it.
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Just commenting to say I'm so glad I looked at the poll - as a pregnant lady all I seem to hear is horror stories about BFing, so glad to see so many actually enjoyed it! Feeling a little better about it now...
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With DS (LO #1) I hated it. Liked nothing about it. We had tons of issues and it was truly truly horrible. I was so relieved when we finally gave up at 3 months.
With DD I LOVE it. She's 4 months old now and, aside from just first week soreness, it's been a dream. I didn't feel like it helped my bonding with DS at all but with DD it really really has.
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Hated it... but it was mostly pumping.
I honestly can't picture myself loving it or any other feeding method personally but I do hope that I like it next time.
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@Rocker2014: I felt the same way when I was pregnant. I read so many stories on here about how much it hurts, people having issues, etc. I was convinced it wasn't going to work. LO is 8 months old and with the exception of a couple of clogged ducts it's been pretty easy. In fact, my LO is quite the boob monster...so I basically wasted a lot of time worrying for nothing.
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Hated it with my first until her tongue and lip ties were diagnosed and corrected at 6 months old. Love it so far with my 7 week old.
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@travelgirl1: i've been wondering how that was going!
i love it. we are at 16.5 months and going strong. went through a stressful patch from about 4 - 6 months, but since then it has been great. even better now that i quit pumping at work altogether
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I loved it but was happy to stop at 13 months!
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I like it. At the beginning, I really loved it. I swear I could feel the oxytocin making me feel good. Around 3 months, it got frustating with distractions, tugging etc and she nursed all the time. Now that LO's started solids and not nursing so so often, it's really nice again.
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At first I was neutral. It hurt really badly & being overtired & full of hormones made me sometimes wish it wasn't "all up to me". But now I love it so much. I am actually sad that LO can drain one side (we just do one side per feeding) in ten minutes or less. It's convenient but I miss having a reason to snuggle for 30 minutes every two hours!!
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Ha nope....I did love FF, though. I still enjoy giving her a bedtime bottle
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yep! was sad when my DS suddenly went on boob strike!
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I would say neutral, though my feelings about it really ran from hate to love... in the first week after delivery I hated it because I got bloody/cracked nipples and we had latch issues, but I used a nipple shield for about 2 weeks and then it was fine. I loved it for selfish reasons after that - SO convenient, I lost all my baby weight and then some, it was nice to snuggle with him - but it wasn't a great bonding experience, We found out later that he is lactose intolerant (explained the back arching/squirming while nursing) and we switched to 2 feedings of BM and 4 feedings of hypoallergenic formula at four months. We lasted 1 month like that, with morning and evening nursing, but then he entirely preferred the bottle and I just gave up at five months. I still miss it sometimes. I hope it works out better with LO#2.
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The first 6 weeks were so hard - I had pain & struggled with low supply. Around 6-8 weeks we got in a groove & I started getting almost like a buzz when I nursed. Then we went through a pseudo nursing strike for about a month where LO was extremely fussy nursing & I almost quit. That was probably the worst part. I persevered & now we still have our challenges but I would say on the whole I really like nursing & it makes me sad to think of weaning.
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The timing was good for me to read this thread. My baby is 4 weeks old and I'm struggling with my current dislike of breast feeding. We've just been able to quit using a nipple shield so I'm now experiencing the cracked, painful nipples. I'm really trying to push through and I have a lot of guilt over how frustrated I am with it. Really hoping I get over the hump soon.
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Yup, I enjoyed it. I was very lucky that it came easy to both of us and never really had any pain or serious problems. I miss it!
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I didn't with DD1 because it was such a fight to get her to do it that I ended up having to EP for several months before I got tired of dealing with it. We're 6 days in w/ DD2 and it's been extremely painful so far. We'll see how it goes on the coming months.
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