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No. my husband remembers that it was April but he wouldn't remember the date. I haven't told many people about our loss because I'm really private so there wouldn't be many people to remember anyway.

No, my DH doesn't even seem to remember that we lost our 1st on our 1st wedding anniversary. I sometimes wish I could forget that or disassociate the two, but I never will.

No, nobody thinks of them except me. I don't even remember my specific due dates (I know one was first week of May, one was last week of May, and one was September). I do remember when I lost them though.

I don't expect others to remember. I don't want to end up mad at DH, so I remind him ahead of time

I did have a few friends and SIL reach out on our daughters due date. It was a second tri loss so more people had asked about the due date, and a few that remembered were due around then with their own.

It hurt more when my mom and SIL were the only ones to reach out on her first birthday. Not even my sister said anything. And it's the day after my dad's birthday so it's not really like my family can forget the association.

My husband obviously knew that our most recent baby was due in October, but he sort of blocked the rest. My due date was Halloween, but I most likely would have been induced this week. My mom is aware and some friends have been very vocal and supportive. We lost him at almost 19 weeks.

The first time our little girl's due date came around (lost at 23 weeks) a number of my friends and family acknowledged it. When it came around again, only one friend mentioned it. My DH doesn't remember her DD. I feel it is forever etched into my brain but I don't expect others to remember.

No. I don't think anyone knows the due date except for me.

No one remembers ours bc it was an early loss at 7 weeks. More significant to us is the month of October - which is the month we found out about the pregnancy, had our first ultrasound, started bleeding, ectopic scare, and then miscarriage confirmation. All various dates in October. My cousin also had a preterm birth loss in October.

DH does because we celebrate it by going out with the kids to do something we think our loss baby would have enjoyed had they been born. He probably doesn't know the exact date, but because we talk about what we will do on that date well in advance, he is aware and thinking about it. No one else remembers. I remember my sister's and always message her on that date to say I am thinking of her. It's the day after her birthday so very easy to remember.