My DH and I are the only ones in our families with IF. My mother was very fertile. She never had to TTC. Dh's mother did TTC, but it didn't take her very long. DH's IF is genetic. We think it must have originated with him.
What about your family?
My DH and I are the only ones in our families with IF. My mother was very fertile. She never had to TTC. Dh's mother did TTC, but it didn't take her very long. DH's IF is genetic. We think it must have originated with him.
What about your family?
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
My mom also had pcos. No one else in my family seems to have any problems.
pomegranate / 3779 posts
Both of my sisters have PCOS. Only 1 has TTC'd and after 8+ yrs she and her SO adopted. The other sister is younger and unmarried.
nectarine / 2433 posts
Nope, neither mine or SO's parents had any fertility issues nor did any aunts and uncles. We seem to be a bit of an anomaly in our family
pomegranate / 3438 posts
Yes, my mom tried for 4 years before they adopted my sister. Then 6 years later when they decided to stop trying the next year she had me. I have various aunts and cousins that also had problems conceiving.
bananas / 9899 posts
No... my mother got pregnant by accident. None of us were really "planned". It was tough when I was struggling because my family just didn't get it.
pomegranate / 3764 posts
Nope, my family are all fertile as anything. Same with hubby's. It's really hard, because it means nobody understands just how hard this is for us.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
@pui: my mom didn't really understand at first either.
blogger / coconut / 8306 posts
My mom has three sisters & two have PCOS and the third has endo. Two needed IF treatments and one went through IVF but never conceived.
I was close with one aunt growing up & I could relate to her the best. My mom never so much as had period cramps, but my aunt could relate to me!
honeydew / 7230 posts
Yes. My two sisters and I have endometriosis, as well as two of my mom's sisters.
nectarine / 2705 posts
My aunt dealt with it. But other than that - there are no known issues in my direct family. I don't wish this on anyone, but I do wish that there was a reason for our struggle.
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
Nobody on my side has had issues getting/staying pregnant, even though they all have endometriosis. It was difficult for me because my mother truly believed that you only miscarry if you "do something wrong". So I've had that stigma to deal with constantly. An aunt had uterine cancer...but no issues like mine.
kiwi / 636 posts
During the course of my infertility treatments, I learned that on my paternal side, one cousin had to have her son via surrogate & another cousin is currently struggling with TTC #1 for almost 4 years now. On my maternal side, everyone just pops out babies like it's nothing.
pear / 1556 posts
Nobody had any trouble on my mom's side. My dad's sister did have a miscarriage, but was able to conceive on her own. We don't know of any other issues besides that.
coconut / 8472 posts
When I told my mom I'd been diagnosed with PCOS and explained what it was, she said she thinks she had it too. But even though she had long cycles, she didn't have trouble conceiving twice.
grapefruit / 4703 posts
My mom took about 6 months to get pregnant each time, but no interventions or anything. I did find out that my DH's cousin was conceived via IVF, but that's it. His mom & sister are both super fertile.
cantaloupe / 6630 posts
My aunt has lean type PCOS, and so do I. My mum and three sisters get pregnant by just batting their eyelids. DH's mum had seven kids in seven years and they all seem to be super fertile too. One of my SILs is really struggling to keep a pregnancy though, she has had several losses.
hostess / papaya / 10219 posts
No but to be fair, it seems like most of my (secondary) IF is age related. And everyone in our family had kids much younger than me. My mom did go through menopause fairly early though. So if she had been trying to have kids at my age, she probably would have been going through the same thing.
cantaloupe / 6059 posts
I was adopted and no one I know of in my biological family struggles with infertility. My adopted mom did though - unexplained infertility for her and my adopted dad. They didn't use birth control and only had one pregnancy (my sister) 14 years into their 33 year marriage. (They're still married but obviously out of their child bearing years. ;))
coffee bean / 33 posts
Nope. It seems everyone in my family is uber fertile...except me of course
grapefruit / 4355 posts
My mom dealt with infertility (she couldn't ovulate without help) so me and both my siblings are fertility babies. It took her 18 months to conceive me, 11 or 12 months for my sister, and 8 or 9 months for my brother (and with the second 2 kids, she started with treatments from cycle #1).
DH and I didn't have any troubles (thankfully) although I will admit that based on my mom's history, I was worried we would. We conceived #1 on our 4th cycle of trying.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
Nope. No one in our families have told us or mentioned they had trouble TTC.
persimmon / 1404 posts
Well, between my mom and her two sisters there are 12 kids and most were surprises. I know my aunt suffered from miscarriages but it's not something that is talked about in my family.
pear / 1580 posts
The only IF in my family is me and my mom. She took 7 years to conceive naturally! :O My mom's 4 sisters were VERY fertile. I can't even imagine how hard that was for her!
clementine / 750 posts
I have a maternal Aunt who was never able to have biological Children. I have one child after a lot of trying and an Injectible IUI cycle. My Aunt and I both developmed Hypothyroidism in our late 20's which I wonder if that is part of the issue. My maternal grandmother had a second trimester loss but that was after 3 successful pregnanncies. No trouble on my Dad's side that I know of and my mom and my sister had no issues.
cherry / 233 posts
It took my parents 12 years to conceive me but I'm not sure what kind of infertility they had because the doctor told my mother she just had to relax and it would happen. I suspect she may have PCOS as I do.
pomelo / 5093 posts
Yep. My mother struggled to conceive me (she even did IUI in the early 80s), and then never conceived again. All of the women in her line (her, her mother, grandmother) went into menopause at age 40, so we're clearly just a little defective. I went into it expecting to have trouble.
cherry / 115 posts
My immediate family (parents, sisters and brothers) is very fertile, but I do have an aunt who is infertile. Coincidentally, my husband's aunt is also infertile.
pomelo / 5524 posts
My aunt and one of my mom's cousins also had multiple miscarriages which is what we're going through right now as well.
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