Ok, I'm getting close to my first appointment at a fertility clinic. I don't think it's technically an RE I'm seeing, as there aren't any within about 3 hours of us. This is the one clinic in the area that specializes in fertility, so I thought it would be a good place to start. I'm in my 8th cycle TTC now, with no luck at all. I'm 33, our donor is also 33, and we are both in good health. I have regular cycles and have no reason to think anything is wrong, but because of our situation using a donor, I want to find out sooner rather than later if anything is! My main question is what questions would you ask in this first appointment? I definitely want to talk about IUI since we are using a donor and need to do AI of some sort anyway. I'm concerned that our at home methods aren't working. I'm worried they won't let me do an IUI without full monitoring, which seems silly given that I have regular cycles with positive OPKs and a consistent temp rise every month. Are there other things I should bring up? Other questions to ask? Anything you did or didn't ask that was really important? Thanks!