I was looking forward to working with a doula. We chose one, and I'm starting to think I'd rather have it be just DH and me than deal with more of her frustration.

She's big on classes and said she wanted to come to my classes with me, which was fine with me. She kept mentioning a Bradley class starting soon and emailed me about it last week, so I said sure, give me the details. It took her several days to write back and say "okay, I'll give you the details soon". Then she calls me today and tells me it started already but I can visit a class for free in a few hours. Maybe that was why she should have told me about it sooner.

This was after forgetting when our appointments were because she's disorganized and doesn't write anything down.

She kept telling me to text or email her anytime for support so I wrote to her updating her briefly on the medical mess I've been through recently. Her response was that we'd talk about it at my next appointment with her in a couple months. I don't get it, she can call and email me whenever she wants to sell things to me but I can't email her?

I'm done with that and don't need the additional stress.