How do you deal with grandparents who seem to only want to feed your LOs unhealthy foods? My almost 3 year old is actually a very reasonable eater for a preschooler but as she has been spending more time with her grandparents (due to them helping out more in preparation for LO2's arrival), she is getting pickier. I want to nip it in the bud but it's complicated by the facts that 1. they love "spoiling" her and 2. they are actually all pickier eaters than she is anyway. In fact, I'm pretty sure FIL has an actual eating disorder (in 10 years, I have never seen him eat anything except hamburgers or french toast, and he even admits he will only drink root beer). So I'm not really sure how to approach this.

We were basically just "letting it go" for a long time but DH got mad when we found out that my dad bought LO a happy meal at McD's last weekend, so I feel like I need to at least have a talk with him. I have tried talking to him in the past though (about the fact that he buys her a giant chocolate chip cookie literally every time he sees her) and he just ignores me and tells me it's his job to spoil her.

Anyone else have family members that do this?