D is 12 months old. For the past 6 months, I have been sending 3 6oz bottles to daycare. I also send solids. So right now he nurses at 6:30am, gets breakfast and bottle at 9:30am, lunch and bottle at 12pm, and snack and bottle at 4pm, then dinner at 6, nurse to sleep at 7:30.

For solids, I was sending 2-3oz yogurt and 1/2 banana for breakfast, 3oz puree for lunch, and 3oz puree for snack. I recently changed it so that I'm sending in mostly real solids, plus daycare now provides breakfast in his new room. So I send 1/2 banana, usually 3oz of a protein and 3oz of veggie for lunch, and 3oz of fruit or puffs/snacks for afternoon snack. PLUS he's still getting the 3 bottles of milk.

At what point do I start sending in sippy cups? When does he start dropping bottle feedings? Am I sending enough solids?

I'm really confused about all this food transitioning and I worry that I"m not feeding him enough. He's a little guy - probably just barely over 20 pounds. At his 9-month appointment we got lectured that he hadn't gained enough (he'd only gained 1 lb in 2 months), and if my calculation of barely over 20 lbs is right, then that's still only 2 lbs over 3 months. GAH!!!