I'm at the beginning stages of helping my sister plan for my other sister's baby shower. My emotions are pretty removed but it feels like I'm helping but with a long stick attached to my hands.

Have any of you planned a baby shower while having IF? Or helped?

Wondering how this will all go? Will I have a breaking point? Am I setting myself up for failure or someone thinking I'm being over-dramatic? Or bitter about IF?

I'm trying to be helpful and want to be helpful.

Also, with upcoming my ER and then FET, how will I tone down those IVF hormones? Is it possible?