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I am so sorry.

im so sorry for your loss.

I was also following your story on WB. I am so sorry for your loss. Grady was so very loved.

I'm so sorry

@FreckledFox: I'm so sorry you lost sweet baby. I am heartbroken for you. Everyone grieves differently but I know for me the first month was the absolute hardest and I didn't think I would ever survive losing my baby (born at 37 weeks via csection and lived 13 hours but could not survive due to cystic kidneys that resulted in underdeveloped lungs (pulmonary hypoplasia).

But I did survive and you will too. It was still break your heart when you think of losing your sweet little one and you will feel that suffocating pain again and again but you will get through it somehow bc what other choice do we have? It is ok to take care of yourself and talk about your loss and be sad when you are sad and happy when happiness find you.

For me I didn't sleep for weeks. And I cried all the time until I developed an infection in my eyes from the nonstop crying. I never thought I would feel normal. But after a few months I started to feel normal again and each day is easier than the day before. The sadness can still be suffocating but you will get through it.

You carried that baby with so much love and there is no doubt that love was felt every moment that baby was with you. You are an amazing mother and your baby will always be in your heart. Take care of yourself and be easy on yourself. My heart is with you

There are no words that seem fitting, but I wish you all the peace in the world and pray for healing. Sending hugs.

I am so very sorry. Have been following on with your story on Weddingbee and have been sending loads of well wishes to you - now I'm sending peace and calm. Lots of love. x

Sending so much love...

Sorry for your loss

So so sorry

I am so very sorry for your loss.

My heart hurts for you and your sweet boy. I'm so sorry for your loss. Grady was lucky to have you as his mama.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Heartfelt sympathies. So sorry for your loss

@FreckledFox: And this may or may not be helpful but one thing the grief counselor told us was:

"People are going to try and say something and they will not know what to say or they will say the wrong thing and even worse they may something that offends/hurts you. Try not to let anything that they say during this time hurt you too much. People do not know what to say. And many of them will turn around and get in their car and will feel just awful and think "why did I say that?!?!" And some people will be silent and not say anything at all for months and months. Again, try to not let the actions/inactions of others hurt you too much at this time"

I'm still working on this everyday...all I can do is try and find peace and happiness. I hope you will be find peace with time

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers

I am so, so sorry for your loss

I am sorry for your loss Praying for you and your family.