DH suffers from chronic pain so it's important to time things right. I know we are SO CLOSE to O & we really want to do it but DH hurts bad enough that he wants to try doing it in the AM. Probably O tomorrow but I don't want to miss out & neither does DH. Our dip wasn't very big last month so its really confusing me this month. Suggestions?
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I never charted so no advice, but bumping!
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I just wrote a post about getting pregnant the day after you o and many bees have. Personally I would wait until morning if your dh feels better then. Have you checked your cm?
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I'd wait for the am.
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You never know until after which is the lame thing about charting. And not everyone has a dip before ( most don't). How regular is your cycle?
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@artbee: I've been lacking in CM over the last fee months. I have stretchy CM that was cloudy yesterday & very little CM today that was streatchy but clear which is what creighton calls fertile cm. But there is very little CM if its not stretchy its cloudy.
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I would maybe wait until tomorrow. We DTD at O-1 and O+1 and got pregnant. That cycle I didn't have crazy CM either.
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Wow between my phone and this glass of wine I spell worse than a 1st grader!
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I'd probably wait. Having sex 'cause you have to isn't fun.
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Do you have an OPK to use? I see a negative result charted... can you test again tomorrow? If you are having EWCM, I would recommend sex at least every other day during having EWCM.
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Temp spike today, +opk & Dh hurts
last time I dryed up right away. Ugh.
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@Sugar.Biscuit: Try having sex in the next 24 hours if your DH is up to it. Given your big temp jump I'm worried you may have already ovulated, but I got pregnant after o and you can too!
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@marionberry: I was thinking I already O'd too. This is so frustrating! I'm doing everything I can to make this easier for DH & now he feels like a failure because he can't preform...again. I just want to cry but I can't because I have to go pick up my rental, take DH to the dr for his seizures, take him to work & go to work myself.
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@Sugar.Biscuit: So sorry you are going through this... This is incredibly rough on the both of you.
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I'm wondering if I don't get my Lh surge till right at or after O cause my OPK showed nothing yesterday AM or PM & then BOOM high fertility this AM.
This happened last month too. I have the CB advanced smiley face OpK & it skips over the medium alert that is suppose to indicate that LH is starting to rise & goes straight to the high alert for the big surge.
Idk next month I want to do it before & after O if we can.
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@Sugar.Biscuit: You're still in the running! You can't get a positive OPK if you've already O'd, and you wouldn't have an LH surge afterwards either since its the LH that causes O. So you'll likely O in the next 24-48 hrs. Hope your DH feels good enough for some fun times!
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@Mrs.Someone: I'm considering getting him a massage tonight to see if it helps.
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Ugh! I didn't get my temp take yesterday cause I was up most of the night with my god daughter & would have discarded it anyways. So now FF says I O'd on cd 12 & not 14 when I had a positive opk. I had a very small thermal shift last month as well so I dont know what to believe! Any guess?
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Go with the opk.
last time I dryed up right away. Ugh.
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