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  1. MrsStar

    nectarine / 2994 posts

    congrats!

  2. spaniellove

    honeydew / 7916 posts

    @jedeve: That sounds like a great situation to have a second baby, not an embarrassment to have a surprise baby!

  3. matador84

    papaya / 10560 posts

    It'll be ok! I got BFp when ds was 9 months. Total shock! Congrats. I'm super excited about having the two so close.

  4. CupQuakeWalk

    coconut / 8475 posts

    @jedeve: OMG! What a BLESSING, honey! Congratulations and juuuust breathe :)) it'll be just fine

  5. Andrea

    GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts

    Awww! It sounds like you're in a great position to have another. And they will be super buds. Congrats!!

  6. autumnlove

    hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts

    Congrats! Ooops babies happen!

  7. Mrs. Twine

    blogger / nectarine / 2608 posts

    It'll be alright. And as for the drinking, I drank early on in my pregnancy with Ellie because I had taken loads of tests and all came back negative so I thought I was safe. My BFP was SUPER late, and I was terrified about having had alcohol once I found out I was pregnant. But she was just fine. I had had about the same amount on the one night I drank (3 drinks). It's true that seeing them learn from the older sibling and watching that relationship develop is really gratifying. Congratulations! And I hope you are feeling good enough to "enjoy" Thanksgiving.

  8. Baby Boy Mom

    pomegranate / 3983 posts

    Congrats! I agree it sounds like a great situation for another kiddo!

  9. QueensBee

    pear / 1718 posts

    I can totally understand how you might be feeling shocked and overwhelmed but I agree with the other ladies, try to remember that it will all work out in the end!

    Hope you're feeling well and definitely pig out on Thanksgiving.

  10. Rainbow Sprinkles

    eggplant / 11287 posts

    It's okay ! Congratulations! Don't worry about the folic acid or wine...everything will work out beautifully.

    My #1 was a surprise so I wasn't taking anything before I got pregnant either...I also got wasted two days before my BFP. My daughter is totally healthy and amazing and beautiful!

  11. HLK208

    pineapple / 12234 posts

    Wow! Congrats!!

  12. oliviaoblivia

    pineapple / 12793 posts

    Omg!!! Congrats!!!

  13. cascademom

    coconut / 8861 posts

    Congrats!

  14. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    Congrats!!! What a crazy and wonderful surprise! It is all going to be ok-and we are excited for you!!

  15. littlek

    GOLD / squash / 13576 posts

    My LO was a surprise too and I definitely drank and did not realize I was pregnant until I was about 6 weeks and LO is perfectly fine.

  16. Penny Lane

    nectarine / 2163 posts

    wow, congrats! i got my second BFP when my LO was 7 months, so I totally get the shock, even though we purposely weren't using any BC.

    hopefully you get to find out sooner rather than later how far along you are!

  17. yin

    honeydew / 7917 posts

    Congratulations! My first was kind of an oops baby, and he is one of the best surprises of my life.

  18. Amelieisme

    persimmon / 1361 posts

    Congrats!! I had the same story with this pregnancy, but LO was 12 mo when I found out! I really thought I was being paranoid when I took my test and was totally floored that it was positive.

  19. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    My friend is pregnant with her third and 2nd oops so you aren't alone!!

    Congrats!!

  20. Amelieisme

    persimmon / 1361 posts

    Just saw your "oops" baby comment. To make you feel better, I'm 32 and have an MD. We vacationed right before I found out and totally drank cocktails on the trip. Happens to everyone and seems more common with kiddo #2

  21. babypugs

    persimmon / 1101 posts

    @jedeve: Oh my gosh! How crazy, scary, and exciting! You'll do great. Congratulations!

  22. BlueWolverine

    pear / 1510 posts

    Wow! Congrats!!!

  23. Mrs. J

    pomelo / 5132 posts

    Oh my goodness! Congrats!

  24. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    Congratulations! I know someone who didn't know she was pregnant (also breast feeding) until she was 5 months along. I'm sure everything is fine.

  25. Bookish

    GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts

    Oh wow!! Congrats totally lol-ing at your 'Oops baby' comment. You'll be ok!!

  26. Mrs. Blue

    blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts

    First, congrats!!! I would be freak in out if O were in your shoes, so I think it is understandable, and frankly, that feelin may last awhile. But, eventually, I'm sure you'll feel like this was the perfect way for things to play out. Having LOs be close in age will be busy, but very fun! Take a deep breath, and then have fun loadin up on carbs at Thanksgiving (breads, potatoes, pasta, etc. were the most morning-sickness friendly food for me!)

  27. jedeve

    pomegranate / 3643 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: at least they are full of folic acid!!

    I had just gotten back in my prepregnancy jeans too!

  28. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    Omg, congrats mama! My heart was beating as I opened this thread! For the first time this week (after one of my BFFs had her son) I was feeling like, maybe I could do this again soon.

    Everything will be great, you can start prenatals now and get to a doc. Let us know what the test with the weeks says! I haven't had a period since March 2012 either!

  29. Sugar.Biscuit

    nectarine / 2063 posts

    Oh how awesome! Congratulations to you & uour family. You will have to keep us all updated!

  30. coopsmama

    cantaloupe / 6059 posts

    Congratulations on your surprise baby! I could've almost written your post last month. I started feeling nauseous and poas on a whim and found out that I was pregnant and only 4 mo postpartum! After I got over the initial shock, I am very excited and looking forward to my babies being so close in age. I am sure the same will be true for you.

  31. dagret

    grapefruit / 4235 posts

    @jedeve: OMG! Congrats!

  32. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    Holy smokes! Congratulations!! And I'm jealous, haha. I want to take a test and find out I'm pregnant!

  33. Ree723

    grapefruit / 4819 posts

    Wow, congrats!!! Just breathe mama, it will all be fine! There are loads of mamas here with two under two (I'll be one myself as of Feb) and you know you'll get amazing support and advice whenever you need it!

  34. Mrs. Confetti

    blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts

    Congrats!! My SIL had a solely timed "surprise" and now her kids are 8 and 6.5 and super close. They entertain themselves together

  35. mrs. 64

    nectarine / 2936 posts

    What a surprise!

  36. MaisyMay

    GOLD / cantaloupe / 6703 posts

    Congrats! While it's a surprise, you are going to rock this!

  37. BabyBoecksMom

    GOLD / papaya / 10166 posts

    @jedeve: congrats! You shouldn't be embarrassed at all!I would think you wouldn't be more than 6 or 7 weeks if you're just starting to feel sick. Oh, and I only felt better when I stayed full, so maybe that will help get you through thanksgiving.

    Sidenote: Maybe you felt so awful after the wine because you were preggo?

  38. lemondrop

    bananas / 9118 posts

    Aww , hugs- it doesn't feel that great now, but congrats anyway! That's probably one reason why we have 9ish months to wrap our brains around everything!

    Actually I don't think your LO being 10 months old is a bad age at all- pretty soon, if not already they'll be walking and that's what really made me feel like I was getting things together. With walking comes better sleep and a little less neediness. Hang in there mama! You aren't the first to have an unplanned LO, and you certainly won't be the last!

  39. Boheme

    papaya / 10473 posts

    Congrats mama!

  40. Kimberlybee

    grapefruit / 4997 posts

    This is such exciting news! Congratulations.

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