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Can you do it slowly over the next few weeks to let your supply dry up more gently? I replaced one feed with the bottle, then another feed a few days later, then another a few days later, etc. I did it without pumping, although I would have just done a short pump at each dropped feed if I had risk of engorgement.
If you really want to switch to all pumping I'm sure that would be fine but I always hated pumping and didn't get much from it.

I was there and I think youre doing the right thing! It helped me enjoy my baby so much more when I wasn’t a slave to BF and the pump.
And I have to say that it’s such a shame that so many LCs are so unsupportive. I would bet that the majority are all feminists and “my body my choice” and all that - but when it comes to a woman weaning because she’s miserable they are pretty shitty. There are some good, supportive ones out there though. The one I had for my first son actually told ME she thought I’d be happier if I weaned around 5/6 weeks. And for this baby (7 weeks) I called her solely because I didn’t want to BF or pump at all this time and I wanted her to help me dry up! And she totally supported me and walked me through it. Here’s what she had me do on a pretty constant schedule:

1) ice packs. Both for comfort and to help dry up. I bought a few bags of frozen peas and distributed them to quart sized bags and put those in. I put a sports bra/coobie over my nursing bra and put the peas between the two bras. I just reused those.
2) avoid the shower water hitting your breasts. Not just the nipples, the entire breast. Keep your back to the shower head for at least a couple of weeks.
3) “no more milk” tea works great. Add some honey and it’s not so bad. Just sort of minty. 3x a day is what the box says. You can have it hot 3 times a day or you can make a big batch and have it iced or reheat it. I love coffee but I just replaced my morning coffee with it for a couple of weeks just to make sure I was getting it in.
4) Sudafed sudafed sudafed. It helped pretty quickly. I took it as often as it was allowed on the box - I think every 4-6 hours?
5) altoids. Just chew a few throughout the day
6) cabbage leaves. Stinky but works. You have to replace them a lot though. I did this the least of all the things listed.
7) definitely keep taking lecithin if you already are, start if you’re not.
8) pump to comfort only. Don’t empty the breast. Since I wanted to wean FAST that’s what I did. I know some people do it more gradually but slowly dropping feeds or pumps. But I just stopped emptying myself cold turkey and pumped to comfort. And I had a borderline oversupply and it still worked for me.

You will feel so much relief when you’re all done with BF/pumping. If you felt super conflicted I might not say that, but since it sounds like you’re just over it, it will be a really good thing for you. I had ppd/PPA with my first and the weaning helped immensely. You might feel a little sad at first or second guess yourself - NORMAL. But just power through and after a few days when milk decreases and you feel the freedom, you’ll be over it!

Lots of luck to you! I hope it brings the peace you need! (I’m sure it will!)

@JJ2626: I don't yet have experience with weaning, so please take this with a grain of salt, but I do have way too much experience with clogged ducts. I was getting them in both breasts on a near daily basis, had mastitis, plus an adverse reaction to the antibiotic given for mastitis and a bad GI response to lecithin...in short, I really sympathize with how much they suck.

What has worked for me in reducing them - and reducing their severity - may be at odds with the advice given for weaning. I was getting them all the time because my LO was tongue tied - so could not empty my breast - and the pump I was using was also not good for that. I'm now using a hospital grade pump and using it for longer, and it's made a huge difference because my breast is getting more emptied, so clogs are less likely to form. If I were you, I'd follow all the advice about gradually spacing out pump sessions or feedings, taking stuff to dry up supply, but I would empty out the breast when pumping to avoid clogged ducts. For me personally, it would be worth drying up a bit more slowly to avoid that discomfort and mastitis risk... If you've had a lot of them, you probably have some lingering inflammation that will make you susceptible....

@JJ2626: I think it took me about 4 weeks to be really done, but I took it slowly because I was pretty cautious about clogged ducts and not wanting to feel uncomfortable. I'd had mastitis twice while I was breastfeeding and really didn't want to risk it again. I did pump until empty for the most part through the process. Once I was down to just one pump session a day, I slowly backed off and stopped some of those sessions short before I was totally empty - or just tried to push them farther apart (like going a day and a half instead of a day when I was really close to dried up).

Once I was down to two or three pumps a day, it didn't feel like pumping was taking over my life quite so much - and I could see the light at the end of the tunnel.

@JJ2626: Yeah, I just started pumping all at once. If a middle of the night feeding happened to fall around (like within an hour) of when I was going to pump, I still nursed then so I wouldn't have to get up twice. But otherwise, I just stopped nursing her and only pumped. For what it's worth, my daughter didn't seem to mind at all!

@JJ2626: Super complicated. I am dreading weaning and think we will have to do it super gradually when we go that route because I hate clogged ducts and mastitis. I hope that it goes really smoothly for you.