Everyone is so helpful, thought I'd ask this too!

I'm working in weaning LO so we can resume fertility treatments. He is doing so well, although its breaking my heart a bit.

We are down to one feed now, right before bed. Have been for the last 4 night. I'm still pretty engorged by feeding time, although it's getting better.

When will I know it's time to cut out this last feed? When I'm no longer as engorged at that time?
Once I stop the last feed do I pump every couple days? Basically how do I tell my breasts, "I'm done"?

And and what about LO? Does he need a snack or cup of milk before bed or anything?