I'm pretty sure I'm going to have to make them off limits to DH while I am breastfeeding LO. Anytime he comes near them I immediately think of my daughter which is not conducive to DTD with my husband. I'd rather be able to focus on the task at hand, if you get what I mean and not worry about being "mommy" while I am being intimate.
Anyone else relate?
GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts
Yeah but I wasn't BFing long and wasn't having sex during that time! I felt so gross!
squash / 13764 posts
For the first 3 months yes. Now he just can't be too free with them but he's allowed near them.
coconut / 8861 posts
Yep. When we get it on, I wear a tank top because they're off limits and I don't want him touching them.
bananas / 9357 posts
Yes! Before LO, DH was really into the girls. He would still like to be but it feels weird to me. I also don't get the same sensations like I used to.
bananas / 9357 posts
@sera_87: lol! My husband did this yesterday and I thought it was sooo weird. I told him couldn't do that again.
pear / 1837 posts
Nope, DH had full access rights. I can't remember if we ended up unconsciously doing anything differently, but DH didn't think so when I asked him once. Maybe it helped that I never ever had leakage so it's not like they were all dripping while we were getting it on?
grapefruit / 4278 posts
@Lozza: DH has full access also, and I never really had leakage issues. I can separate boobs for feeding and boobs for fun in my head
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
@Lozza: I have no leakage...I just can't get in the mood when my daughter's face flashes in front of me anytime DH touches them.
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