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What is your BFing goal?

  1. DillonLion

    GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts

    I am 34 days away from my goal of one year. I really, really, really want to be done already.

  2. Purpledaisy

    nectarine / 2973 posts

    12 months is my goal but planning on continuing until about 18 months. I think 2 years would be my cut off. She's 7.5 months right now.

  3. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @ms.janedoe: I'm in the same boat as you! My goal is to try it, at least for a week, and we'll see what happens from there. My mom had a really, really hard time breastfeeding all of us, so if I can even make it a few weeks, I will be quite proud.

  4. dolphin

    pomegranate / 3768 posts

    12 months. We are only two months away and it's getting hard. I looked in my freezer today and have only two bags of bm left. Not sure if I'll make it.

  5. illumina

    pomelo / 5469 posts

    6mths initially, then see how it goes once we start solids.

  6. lovehoneybee

    GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts

    My long-term goal was 12 months, anything since has just been lagniappe.

  7. bushelandapeck

    pomelo / 5720 posts

    My goal was 12 months. LO is 14 mos now and still very interested. I'm hoping to be done BF by the time the next LO is here (DS will be almost 22 mos). I don't have any interest in tandem nursing.

  8. boots

    apricot / 344 posts

    Prebaby my goal was one year. Now that DD is nearly 7 months, I can't imagine not nursing passed a year. My new goal is 2 years.

    Obviously if DD weans herself before then, that's fine. I really want to allow her to self wean.

  9. pastemoo

    cantaloupe / 6146 posts

    17 months now... and hoping to at least make it to Thanksgiving to survive the flight, and then it's just at the "we'll see" level.

    Never thought I'd be into extended BFing but it just seemed weired to stop so we kept going. Around 16 months it became less "on demand" than it was.

  10. FarmWifeGina

    pear / 1571 posts

    Right now, at 36 weeks pregnant and gearing up to attempt nursing a third baby with a diagnoses of Insufficient Glandular Tissue for myself, my first goal is 6 weeks. 6 weeks of going hard at it, nursing, nursing, nursing, pumping, supplementing with a Supplemental Nursing System if I have to, trying all the herbs and other supplements I've learned about since the last time. 6 weeks is my goal and then I can reevaluate how all this effort is effecting me and my baby and the rest of our family and then go from there, without guilt. After that my goals would be 8 weeks, 12 weeks, 6 months, and a year. Anytime past a year would be a huge, huge bonus.

  11. Elderberrygin

    kiwi / 689 posts

    At least some breastmilk until 12 months. I don't plan on pumping past that point as I have a lot of work travel coming up around the 12 month mark. I don't mind doing morning and evening nursing sessions a little past the 12 month mark so LO can gradually wean, but I'm pretty keen to be done with breastfeeding.

  12. Kemma

    grapefruit / 4291 posts

    We've made it to twelve months so I have no further goals but I can see that my little nurse-aholic is going to be in it for the long haul!

  13. Mrs. Twine

    blogger / nectarine / 2608 posts

    We are 19 months in today. I don't have a goal, but I do think it would be kind of cool if she weaned at age five and I could say I nursed for a full decade un-interrupted. But that's just me being a huge dork We plan to do self-weaning again, so only time will tell, I suppose.

  14. cheert16

    nectarine / 2631 posts

    My initial goal was 6 months- and we made it there. Now its 7 months- then will be 8- then will be 9- Etc. I don't want to put too much pressure on it! DS already drinks some formula at night when I am at work because I cant produce as much as he wants! (although the days I BF all day- he does fine... urg I don't get it!!)

  15. MarieJ

    pear / 1579 posts

    My goal is 12 moths and I'm three weeks shy of reaching that.

  16. SweetMamaM

    pear / 1743 posts

    Six months EBF, anything more will be a bonus

  17. Kemma

    grapefruit / 4291 posts

    @Mrs. Twine: I love that your bf'ing goal is five years!

  18. AprilFool

    nectarine / 2591 posts

    12months or when she is walking properly (over 1).

  19. imbali

    apricot / 347 posts

    @ms.janedoe: THIS. I just want to make it through the first few nights haha

  20. MrsTiz

    cantaloupe / 6800 posts

    While I was pregnant I wanted to go for 6 months, now I'm going to stop pumping at 1 month.

  21. Kemma

    grapefruit / 4291 posts

    @MrsTiz: Hugs to you mama, hang in there!

  22. MrsTiz

    cantaloupe / 6800 posts

    @Kemma:

  23. Ra

    honeydew / 7586 posts

    @MrsTiz: Oh sweetie, I understand your pain/frustration/resentment completely! I tore myself up over it. I wrote this post about a month in to get my feelings out: http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-am-not-a-failure.

    In the end, I was able to BF but we heavily supplement. B had a tongue and lip tie and his mouth was so small compared to my ginormous boobs. Nursing didn't work for us at all.

    Then, right when I was about to give up, he became interested in watching me pump. He started smacking his lips so on a whim I put him on the boob and he latched. It was so bizarre.

    A month is a good run! I always tell DH the BFing during those first couple months was the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. I let it consume me and lost out on a lot of time with DS because of it. There is nothing wrong with formula!

  24. scotchbonnet

    cherry / 159 posts

    My goal is 12 months. I need to start pumping more to build a stash but Lo is up every one hour at night so she is constantly eating that i am drained by morning. I will re-evaluate at the 12 month mark

  25. Mrs. Twine

    blogger / nectarine / 2608 posts

    @Kemma: I'm pretty sure my goal pegs me as at least a little unbalanced But I am curious to see where we end up. She is not nursing as much as Ellie was at this age, but is still 5+ times a day.

  26. Boheme

    papaya / 10473 posts

    Past 1 year, definitely. We'll see how it goes.

  27. avivoca

    watermelon / 14467 posts

    Ideally, one year. I can't wait for the fee digs to space out a bit though.

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