eggplant / 11408 posts
@Mamasig: we are in a similar place. Both DH and I are Catholic, but we haven't found a Church home that feels right to us since we've been in our current city (for 4 years, so not exactly new). Babies make it harder, as do doubts. Hopefully we can get there soon. I don't like not liking church.
apricot / 320 posts
Raised Episcopal. I guess I would describe myself as sentimental about my Christian upbringing but a non-believer as an adult. I just don't connect with it anymore. DH wasn't raised with religion and feels uncomfortable at church. I wouldn't say we're atheists, though, and consider myself to have spiritual beliefs. I respect those who've connected to their faith in positive ways.
grapefruit / 4997 posts
Catholic, very active and involved in our parish activities and ministries.
cantaloupe / 6171 posts
We're both Jewish but don't belong to a synagogue now, and haven't attended services since before lo was born (aside from having a naming ceremony with a rabbi). When lo is older, and when we move to a more permanent community after I finish grad school, we will look for a congregation to join. I feel like we're more than just culturally Jewish, but also fairly non-practicing these days, though we do celebrate Hanukkah and Passover at home. I just can't deal with figuring out bringing lo to services when she's so small! Esp since we aren't already part of a community.
pear / 1547 posts
Almost the same as @Torchwood: except I would say I'm more agnostic, DH is firmly atheist and he's actually a UU member and was super active growing up and it was a big part of his life. We've been in a new town/state/side of country for over a year now and haven't made any friends, so I'm trying to get us to go the UU church here and try it out, but we never remember and I think the idea of going with a toddler exhausts us already.
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
Very active/involved Christian. Church Sundays, volunteering, and a small group during the week.
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
I don't usually use the word "religion" but I have put my faith and hope in Jesus Christ. DH and I attend a nondenominational Christian church but, I confess, we haven't been going as much since DS was born. I was in two bible studies (one was for me and the other for couples) but both have ended. Essentially, I need to get my butt in gear. Not because I "should" but fellowship is a gift from God and being spiritually "fed" is so important. I am a work in progress.
pineapple / 12526 posts
Im a humanist pagan.
I generally tell people Im agnostic though, because it's easier than explaining.
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
I'm a Christian. DH and I grew up Baptist but now we attend an evangelical Christian church. We go every Sunday. Their service time works so super great for our family, which is nice and the girls adore the nursery. We keep trying to go to Wedne5small group but that hasn't been working as well for us. Hopefully other group options will open up!
kiwi / 526 posts
Christian. I was raised Catholic, but don't feel a connection to the RCC anymore. DH was raised Presbyterian and still considers himself so. We have visited a handful of different churches in the past year, and haven't felt at home in any of them for various reasons. This thread inspires me to give one of them another chance. We desperately need a Christian place of worship, and I would love to join a women's bible study.
The more I feed myself with Christian writings, the Bible, and church, the more I want Christ in my life....and I need the daily feeding.
pear / 1770 posts
@MenagerieMama: I'm not sure how it is at your local UU church, but FWIW, ours provides free nursery care (transitioning to UU education at age 3) during Sunday service. There's actually a group of new parents that meets in the basement instead of going to service every third Sunday of the month so they can relax and chat while their kids are in nursery care! The way the church support parents of babies and young kids was one of the major factors that convinced me to join.
pear / 1750 posts
We are atheist. I was raised atheist and my DH is the only other person (besides my brother) who was also raised atheist. We'll raise DS the same. I believe you don't need religion to have a moral foundation.
persimmon / 1230 posts
Nope - and proud of it!
@loveisstrange:
@macintosh: So cool that both you and your DH were raised without religion. I'm lucky that DH is atheist, too.
eggplant / 11824 posts
@macintosh: both my husband and I were raised atheists, too (and my mom was a fire-and-brimstone child preacher at revivals summers as a child!!). And totally agree with you about not needing religion to have, teach or build a moral foundation. If you need religion to teach you how to be a decent person, or to keep you "in check", there are bigger issues going on.
pear / 1852 posts
I'm a Christian, specifically a Pesbyterian.
DH grew up Catholic but left. He joined our church before we got married.
The last year or two he has had doubts but we are raising DD Presbyterian.
However, I teach at a Muslim school!
honeydew / 7622 posts
Agnostic, T goes to Catholic school and a good chunk of our friends are Christian and we live in a religious area.
pear / 1503 posts
I was raised Catholic, went to church every week as a kid, and was even an altar girl for a couple of years. Became disillusioned with the church and religion in general in my early teens, and am now firmly atheist. DH was raised in a non-religious household, and is atheist, as well. We had a secular wedding. We will raise DS up to understand the practices and teachings of the major world religions so as to be able to relate to others, but his values and ethics will not be based on religious teachings. I still go to church with my parents on Christmas Eve, as part of a family tradition. I do not, however, take Communion.
papaya / 10560 posts
Revert to Catholicism. At mass every Sunday and teach a ccd class. We love our parish and the sense of family and belonging.
pineapple / 12566 posts
@macintosh: @yoursilverlining: We are both atheists and I agree about not needing religion to have a strong moral foundation. My husband grew up atheist, I grew up in a vaguely religious household but figured out my beliefs (or lack thereof) by age 16.
cantaloupe / 6206 posts
DH and I are both Jewish and study/practice some Buddhism as well (common around here, we're known as "Jewddhists"). We've been a bit more active in our temple since LO was born. We also believe you don't need religion to have a moral foundation so the two are very different to us... ie our religious practices are more about culture and heritage than a basis for morality. Our morality is secular.
pear / 1648 posts
I was raised Catholic (K-12 Catholic school and musician at Mass and all that, too) and DH was raised Southern Baptist. We really struggled early in our relationship with how to reconcile our religions/beliefs, but through lots of discussion and exploring other churches, we've settled in the Methodist church and baptized DD there a year ago.
I think our parents were a little uncomfortable at first with the change, but they've really come around and always say how much they enjoy our church when they visit. DH is heavily involved in the music ministry, and I help out when I can, so we're lucky our church is only 5 min from our house!
pear / 1547 posts
@ms.line: that support group sounds great! I would be thrilled if the one here does that. I'll have to check. They do have a nursery but I guess I just figured it would be weird to leave her there the first time we ever went to a service. Maybe it's not? She does daycare 3x/wk so hopefully would be fine I guess I'm just thinking I know nothing about them!
pear / 1593 posts
I grew up Christian (Baptist, then most recently Disciples of Christ/Christian Church). I became atheist about a year ago, and went from regularly attending to being at a year of purposely not attending.
persimmon / 1447 posts
Christian. I wasn't raised in the church, but attended a Church of Christ middle school and high school. DH was raised Methodist and went to church every Sunday, participated in youth group, all of that. I'd like that for our children as well, but we just haven't gotten around to finding a church home.
kiwi / 698 posts
We are Catholic, but not really actively Catholic. We got to church for major holidays and every couple of months. We plan to send our children to Catholic school when they're older, and when they are older and more able to participate in the service we will go more often.
grapefruit / 4819 posts
Raised Catholic, non-practicing now as I don't agree with many of the Church's teachings. DH is an atheist and has absolutely zero desire to bring our children up under any kind of religion.
Interestingly, to those talking about morality and values etc, I read a recent study that found that children from religious families were actually meaner than their non-religious peers.....
Here's the article if anyone wants to read it:
http://www.theguardian.com/world/2015/nov/06/religious-children-less-altruistic-secular-kids-study
nectarine / 2878 posts
Jesus follower, non denominational church (Life Church) every Sunday with both kids and they love it. Also in a small group that meets every Sunday evening for bible study/small talk. We do life together, so most of them are my closest friends and we see each other several times a week.
pineapple / 12802 posts
I'm surprised by all the people born and raised atheists! I kind of assumed (terribly!) that it was more our generation (or maybe my brothers, but certainly not my parents age) who were raising kids without religion.
My husband and I were both raised Catholic. He flip flops between believing and not, I'd say DH is more agnostic than anything. I am firmly atheist and have been since middle school-ish.
persimmon / 1171 posts
@Ree723: I don't think it's fair of that article to lump all religions together.
I'm Christian and it's a little scary to me how hard it was for me to admit that on here. I feel like we (society) are leaning towards a world view of religion being bad; You're not supposed to tell anyone you believe in God or the Bible because then you're automatically stupid and bigoted.
pear / 1593 posts
@hellocupcake: I think that's funny you say that. I only know a few atheists, and it is definitely the wrong answer to say atheist to people in my life, but I live in the south..... The only people who know I'm now an atheist are other atheists bc of the negative reactions I would get. I mean, they even say prayers at my work company dinners.
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
@Ree723: I read about that study last week and thought it was really interesting.
@hellocupcake: I am surprised by the number of non-religious people on HB, but percentage-wise a majority (more than 70%) of Americans still identify as Christians.
pineapple / 12802 posts
@runnerd: I agree. I think the internet sees more open atheists because it's more anonymous. My company does a massive prayer at our Christmas dinner, too.
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