We just used a non family member sitter for the first time and it went great!

I didn't leave a lot of instructions for play or dinner but I left some tips for bedtime!

LO 1- wants a Zoli cup of water before bed, purple toothbrush with bubble gum toothpaste, no ceiling fan and she wants to be tucked in with her AA blanket.

LO 2- brush with strawberry toothpaste, ceiling fan, and hold her after changing her into PJs...you can put her down as soon as she starts sucking her thumb.