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What percent are you? NYT household income interactive

  1. ValentineMommy

    pomelo / 5791 posts

    @MrsKRB: Same here.

    Somehow we're in the top 25%, but my husband doesn't even make minimum wage (100% commission job) and I'm working part time. We literally have almost nothing left over after bills each month, most of which are necessities. I have no idea how some people survive. They should take damn property taxes into account before putting me into that bracket lol

  2. Anagram

    eggplant / 11716 posts

  3. coopsmama

    cantaloupe / 6059 posts

    @MrsBrewer: I totally agree with that. We're doing well -- all major bills paid, food to eat and a roof over our heads, but definitely extremely budgeted and not a ton to either fun OR savings. We're also a single income family.

  4. lawbee11

    GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts

    Wow that was really interesting. Thanks for sharing.

  5. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    We're top 10% for our area, which I find pretty plausible. I asked my husband recently whether he thought we were middle class, upper middle class, or what. He didn't think we were upper middle, but I really think he's wrong there. I don't think he has a good perspective on how much more he really makes than most people, and he worries about money constantly which probably plays a role in that. But we pay more than the minimum on our (bought brand new) car, and our mortgage, and we just finished paying off his student loans so we now have several hundred more per month to put towards those things. We also could have afforded to get a house that was 2-3 times the price that we chose, it just wasn't a priority for us. We can comfortably afford vacations, eat out a lot (more than we should), shop at higher priced stores like Whole Foods, etc. And all this on one income. I just feel like he doesn't realize or appreciate how incredibly privileged we are in all that. He argues that he works his ass off for all that, but well, so do a LOT of other people, and they don't make what he does. Yes, I feel like he's earned it, but that doesn't mean he isn't very lucky in the job that he found.

  6. Mae

    papaya / 10343 posts

    I think there is a lot more that goes into determining "middle class" than just income. Obviously where you live, but also your age, your education/job, how many people in your house are working, how many kids you have, what sorts of expenses you have (loans, daycare, etc).

    For example if you have one person making 75,000 in middle of nowhere kansas and you have one or two kids (but no daycare because one spouse stays home) and no student loans... you're probably upper middle class and have quite a bit of wiggle room. If you have both adults working to make $75,000 in Chicago and three kids, two of whom are in daycare because there is no one home to watch them, and if you have any debt you're paying off-- you probably feel really broke. I guess my point is that disposable income is more important than actual income, and that can be affected by tons of things.

    You also can't really tell just from looking at someone or how they live. When I lost my job our % went down 20 percentile for our area or 40 for the national average. But looking at us you wouldn't think we look any different even though we are living on substantially less now. The difference is that when I was working we were contributing a lot to savings and retirement and paying on all of our loans. Because I haven't found work yet we suspended our savings efforts and put my law school loans on deferment. So things might not look different but before we had a lot of cushion (which made me feel like we were more upper middle class) and now we are living more paycheck to paycheck (with just the savings we'd already amassed as an emergency fund) which makes me feel solidly middle class.

  7. MaryM

    pomelo / 5129 posts

    I think money in/money out has a lot more to do with it than age or education.

    Can an uneducated person never be considered upper middle class?

  8. Anagram

    eggplant / 11716 posts

    For all that took the poll: did you answer the poll for your area, or for the US as a whole?

    I took it, and did the number for my area--I didn't even think about the US as a whole, but that's a different number.

  9. MaryM

    pomelo / 5129 posts

    @Anagram: I answered for the US because I figured it would be a more accurate poll that way

  10. mrsjyw

    GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts

    I did the US as a whole

  11. Anagram

    eggplant / 11716 posts

    @MaryM: I don't know. I think I was thinking along the lines of a teacher with a master's degree making $45,000 a year vs. someone with high school degree who works construction for $45,000.

    One of my friends IRL was arguing that the teacher is middle class while the construction worker in working class, because of education. I'm not so sure though. Like you, I think it's kind of a salary/costs ratio.

  12. MrsSCB

    pomelo / 5257 posts

    @jedeve: SO true about income varying per region. My H and I both took a pay cut when we moved out of the NYC area. Not ideal, but it was for my H's dream job and our expenses are also less. Luckily after a year and a half, I've made up the difference (though my H hasn't), but there are definitely always going to be tradeoffs based on where you live!

  13. mrsjazz

    coconut / 8234 posts

    @Anagram: I answered for the US. US it was 10%, my area it was 15%

  14. MaryM

    pomelo / 5129 posts

    @Anagram: I guess I would tend to define "class" in a more broad monetary way and not so much based on backgrounds like education.

    I am a few months away from a master's degree. DH didn't finish college. He makes more than me and works in the service industry. Am I considered a higher class because I have more education and work at a computer even though I make slightly less money?

    To me, that just doesn't make sense. In the same way that it doesn't make sense to categorize a person with an advanced degree who makes twice as much as me but doesn't spend it well as upper class.

  15. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    @Anagram: I answered for our area (and specified that), but it was only a 1% difference for US as a whole.

  16. Mrs. Pen

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts

    I voted wrong- oops...

    I am bottom 40% - not surprising to me at all. I haven't entered my real career yet- once I do we'll be top half.

  17. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    I think being middle class is way more than just income. I'd say it includes total net worth, access to funds, one's purchasing power, and even lifestyle. Lifestyle choices gets tricky because that has a lot to do with a person's value system.

  18. Freckles

    honeydew / 7444 posts

    @Anagram: @MaryM: I wonder about this too. Where i live, those who work in the trades start at about $100k per year. I think working class refers more to their social status, since based on income, they'd be in middle class.

  19. Greentea

    pomelo / 5678 posts


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  20. PawPrints

    pomegranate / 3658 posts

    The reason why I personally think it's so important to be aware of your financial position relative to the rest of the country is because I feel like it helps inspire generosity when you confront how wealthy you really are. As others have said, it's easy in the US to assume you're middle class, but when you realize you're far above that, I think it can help people realize they are in a position to help others out through charity and supporting public policy that helps out the poor. At least that's how I feel on my optimistic days.

  21. lulu22

    apricot / 306 posts

    @Mae: totally agree that disposable income may be more revealing than actual income! I would be very curious to see one of these where it looks at what % of household income goes straight to rent/mortgage. While our household income looks good on paper, almost half goes directly to our rent (and we live in a modest, 2 bedroom apartment, nothing fancy or big and we could NEVER afford to buy in our area).

  22. ShootingStar

    coconut / 8472 posts

    @Anagram: I think you'll like this: http://www.nytimes.com/packages/html/national/20050515_CLASS_GRAPHIC/index_01.html

    It's an interesting way to calculate which "class" you are based on varying facets, like different careers.

  23. jedeve

    pomegranate / 3643 posts

    @PawPrints: thank you! That's my point.

    I think a lot of people see how stretched financially they are with college, and retirement and day care and hospital bills and don't want to be taxed anymore. But what they don't think about is someone earning half of what they do have those same expenses. And incomes in this country is so grossly weighted to the top. So, yes you can be in the upper twenty percent and still struggling because most of the wealth is still concentrated at the very top.

    So we should support public policy that addresses the inequality in our system because we all do better when we all do better.

  24. shinymama

    persimmon / 1128 posts

    @Anagram: top 10% for the US, top 19% for my area.

  25. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    @PawPrints: Totally agree! This is a big part of why it frustrates me that DH consistently thinks we're worse off than we really are. He doesn't like donating to charity, or programs that help the poor. He sees himself as a very "self-made man," since he grew up relatively poor, and thinks if he can do it, anyone can. He just totally fails to understand how lucky he was in so many ways. Thankfully he is very pro-volunteer work, so at least there's some area we can agree on. I don't know how to help him understand better, so he can appreciate what we have more.

  26. looch

    wonderful pear / 26210 posts

    @MaryM: I think they absolutely can! Especially if you think about people with generational wealth.

    And that is exactly what my point in this whole discussion is, it's not just about your job, etc.

  27. Anagram

    eggplant / 11716 posts

    @ShootingStar: oh that is a GOOD one. I love these interactive calculators! This one especially is awesome because it's so different for me and DH (both have master's degrees, both have top 10% fields of work, but our incomes and our individual "wealth" are so, so different!)

  28. MaryM

    pomelo / 5129 posts

    @ShootingStar: I like that one a lot more!

    I think it makes more sense to weigh all of those factors together than to say that someone who makes less than X amount or has less than X education is of a lower class.

  29. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    I know we have a higher income than some in our area, I don't feel like we are as high as the chart is saying. With that, we also carry some significant debt with student loans, medical, CC, cars, ect. So, I think we would feel a LOT better off if we could just get that all paid off.

  30. yoursilverlining

    eggplant / 11824 posts

    @jedeve: "So, yes you can be in the upper twenty percent and still struggling because most of the wealth is still concentrated at the very top. "

    Totally agree - the jump from top 10% to top 5% or 1% are huge leaps, not the same as the jump from top half to top 10%. Income mobility is so unequal.

    @PawPrints: I think about this a lot, and thought about it when I saw the graph today with my placement. If I am having to budget and be conscious of spending and drive a 10 year old car (and still be in the top 10% in my state), how stressed about $$ are the other 90%? good lord. I definitely give more because I realize how lucky I am to be in the position I'm in - - even though that position isn't rich/luxury/safe/super comfortable, and even though it's one I worked hard for. Everyone's working hard out there.

  31. mrs. bird

    bananas / 9628 posts

    @Greentea: could you elaborate on the morals part of that?

  32. ShootingStar

    coconut / 8472 posts

    There was an interesting point in one of the NYT articles I read (I've been jumping from article to article so I'm not sure which one) that talked about the difference between 1-percenters and everyone else. They said that if you take away the mortgage interest deduction, then the people who are truly in the top percent don't have any kind of a lifestyle change. Whereas people who are "merely" upper class, would fight tooth and nail to not have that happen.

    That, to me, illustrates the difference between the truly wealthy, and considering yourself middle class, even if it's upper middle.

  33. sunny

    coconut / 8430 posts

    I've read somewhere that the people at the bottom half of the 1% vs. the top half of the 1% are so, so, so different. At the bottom half, you have people who work for a living (typically for other people)--doctors, lawyers, professionals, etc. At the top half (the 0.5%), you have a lot of inherited wealth, business owners, famous people, etc. There's a huge difference in lifestyle too.

  34. SugarplumsMom

    bananas / 9227 posts

    I live abroad, so I didn't vote, but high taxes and cost of living aside, I think middle class is about lifestyle and comfort - not in material possessions, but about stability and being able to provide for your family and needing to budget a little to afford some luxuries. This accounts for the millionaire next door driving a beat-up truck and the neighbors with a yacht that's buried in debt; their real financial stability isn't obvious from an outsider's perspective, but their individual comfort level would be a better indicator.

  35. illumina

    pomelo / 5469 posts

    I found a U.K. one and we got top 1%, though I was watching a program on TV about this recently and like @sunny: says, there is a huge difference within the top 1% bracket!

  36. Anagram

    eggplant / 11716 posts

    @sunny: oh yeah, there's a huge difference between the 1% podiatrist who owns his own practice and the .001% heiress who lives off her investments and employs people to make sure those investments make money! =)

  37. wheres_c

    pomelo / 5789 posts

    We're in the top 10%, top 4% for our state, top 8% for our city.

  38. Skadi

    apricot / 456 posts

    With 120 votes so far, I'm the only person who is in the bottom 10%. It sort of confirms my feelings that I'm in a different standard of living than the rest of the board.

  39. Ajsmommy

    pomegranate / 3355 posts

    Dh and I were just discussing this last night. We determined we are upper middle class but don't feel that way b/c the cost of living here is so high. I did this thing and it kind of proved that point. We are top 17% in US but that drops to top 37% for our state. I know we should feel like we are "better off" than we are but with such high cost of living and astronomically expensive daycare it's hard to see that...

  40. Modern Daisy

    grapefruit / 4187 posts

    I took this the other day andcouldn't believe where we stood. It definitely doesn't feel right since we are taxed so high and have to pay a ton for childcare. After that there really isn't a lot left.

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