So far, I've only needed to breastfeed in public a couple of times (once was in the car) and I'm *usually* covering with an A&A blanket. LO is almost 6 weeks old
When breastfeeding in public, do you cover? What do you use?
So far, I've only needed to breastfeed in public a couple of times (once was in the car) and I'm *usually* covering with an A&A blanket. LO is almost 6 weeks old
When breastfeeding in public, do you cover? What do you use?
111 votes
cherry / 193 posts
For the first 2-3 months I used a cover. After that her head was big enough to hide my boob from view, and it just looks like we're cuddling
pear / 1930 posts
Only nursed once in public but I used a nursing cover with a neck strap built in. Glad I had it because LO flails when feeding (especially latching) and a swaddle blanket would fall off.
pineapple / 12566 posts
I rarely used a cover. Occasionally I would use an AA blanket if I felt I needed to be more discreet.
watermelon / 14206 posts
I would just try to find a discreet place and cover with an aa blanket.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
It changed depending on how comfortable we were, where I was, who I was with... Early on if i was with other mom friends, often just an a&a blanket over my shoulder. With mixed company friends usually I did use a cover, or once at my sisters bridal shower used a cover. By the end she was very efficient so no cover usually, I'd just find someplace quieter and more discreet.
I mostly did the swaddle blanket tucked into my bra strap to keep it loosely in place. It was smaller to carry around anyway and felt less contrasting to Lo. But for the early, loooong sessions every time we went out to eat (all meals were eaten one handed) a real cover was helpful.
pomegranate / 3845 posts
I always wore a tank top under a shirt and pulled the shirt up and the tank down, exposing very very little. And I'd try to pick a discreet spot, like a corner or something. Not that I was embarrassed, but LO was a distracted nurser after 4 months so the quieter, the better!
cantaloupe / 6630 posts
I tried to use a cover with my first but it was a ridiculous disaster. So I started feeding uncovered and do the same with my second baby. The only time I would feel the need to cover now (I'd just use an A&A blanket) would be in the presence of my dad, FIL or granddad, but I suspect they would just leave the room anyway.
pomegranate / 3601 posts
I don't cover but I should say that I live in nursing tanks with a normal shirt over it most days so there is only minimal exposure
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
I had a nursing tank (because I didn't like my belly exposed) and a nursing cover. When she was 6 mo old, I didn't nurse in public anymore. If she was hungry, I fed her a snack. ...except, I did nurse her on a plane and then i just used my a & a blanket tied around my neck.
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
I used a cover for the first several months- she popped on and off so much that my whole boob would be exposed if I didn't, and I liked that the cover stayed in place. After that, I rarely used anything- just pulled down/up my shirt enough.
persimmon / 1328 posts
At the start I tried to mess around covering with muslins and it just ended up being another thing to worry about. So very quickly I just didn't bother with covering at all.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
I should add I always wore a nursing tank or a tank under my shirt, so my belly wasn't exposed. I didn't so much care if someone saw my boob but wanted my post partum belly covered.
grape / 91 posts
I usually used a cover (not one of the "loud" ones but I hadn't even of the ponchos that look like you could wear them). I also almost always had on a nursing tank under my shirt so I could pull up my shirt and unclip my tank so very little was exposed if I didn't have a cover.
persimmon / 1447 posts
I use a muslin cover and USUALLY wear a cami or tank under whatever top I've got on. I totally wish I could NIP without worrying about what other people may think, but I am not there mentally. Kudos to you mamas that NIP proudly!
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
I usually had a nursing tank, sometimes under a shirt that a bit of give in the neckline (like a cowl neck), and I would try to find a discreet place (I'd sit on the inner side of a booth at a restaurant, maybe). There was rarely boob hanging out. But E didn't like covers...he would always pull them off, so I never really bothered. I wouldn't like being covered up when I was eating either.
honeydew / 7504 posts
On the rare occasions when I did BF in public, I either used my nursing cover or an A&A blanket. I'm all for women NIP, but it was just never something that worked well for us. D hated being covered, and I wasn't quite comfortable enough to do it without at cover.
nectarine / 2317 posts
I hated the covers, and I find blankets hard especially now at 5 months she's constantly on/off during feeding. I usually do the double shirt (nursing tank or nursing bra/tank top plus other shirt on top). the top shirt covers the majority of my exposed breast. I find it easier now that's shes older and can hold her head up better. If she pops off I tend to cover my nipple with my hand until she wants more. I'm now comfortable feeding pretty much anywhere, but in the early days it was just too much of a production and needed a bit more of a private space to do it.
pomegranate / 3393 posts
My LO never put up with any kind of cover! So it was boobs all the way, but we were usually discreet, especially as I got better at learning to layer my tops, etc.
nectarine / 2964 posts
I voted for other because it was sort of "all of the above"...
When LO was a newborn I had a cover purchased and we used it fine. Then at one point when he started realizing that he was covered, he disliked it and was distracted, so we no longer could use it. I always has breastfeeding tanks which works out great, and my boobs are relatively small, so eventually we ditched the covers and I don't BF covered. It is still quite discreet because his head basically covers my entire boob. So I guess my cover was his head haha.
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
I wear a v-neck shirt so I can just unclip my bra and pull my breast up, versus messing with layers of clothing, but after I get him situated, I set an A&A blanket on one side of my shoulder (if he's not in the sling), depending on which side he's eating from.
I don't cover him up, but I do drape the blanket so that half my boob is not hanging out for all to see. I'm an F, so I feel exposed without something there.
pomegranate / 3779 posts
I tried a cover a few times and hated it, so then just used a light blanket, but eventually stopped with that because LO just pulled at it all the time and it was a pain to keep in place. I always wore a tank top under whatever shirt I wore so my belly stayed covered.
persimmon / 1363 posts
I had a cover for a couple of weeks with my first, but once we got the hang of it, I nursed openly absolutely everywhere - check-out lines, professional sporting events, Ikea, restaurants, etc. Everywhere we go, on the go. Now I am 2.5 years into nursing, I wouldn't even notice if my boob was hanging out of my shirt in public with no baby on it. I do the nursing tank/shirt thing because yikes re: postpartum belly.
grapefruit / 4712 posts
E has always hated a cover. I either wear nursing tops or Tami tanks from old navy (sometimes with another shirt sometimes not). I try to just nurse him quietly and these days without the crazy gymnastics that comes with nursing a busy toddler.
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
I use a nursing cover that has the insert at the top to "open up" the neck line so I could see her. Blankets never worked for us since DD hated being so covered and we both get really hot/sweaty, etc.
I am not comfortable with nursing without a cover b/c she suddenly/randomly pulls off sometimes! And my boobs were so big that even with the two layer thing, I always felt like I'd flash somebody.
pomegranate / 3595 posts
I nursed with a cover with LO1 and just got a nursing scarf for LO2. I gave used it three times so far and like that it covers front and back and stays on your shoulder. LO is only 9 weeks so he still takes a minute or two to successfully latch so I feel more comfortable covered up for now. Although one of the times was at church so I think I would probably stay covered (in the pew) so I didn't shock anyone into making me move to the baby room.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
I wore cami's so I could pull a regular shirt up, and pull the cami down. Covers/blankets were just a bigger pain and bigger distraction.
apricot / 477 posts
I used a nursing cover exactly once. If I need coverage I just use a muslin blanket near my shoulder but I really dont usually care
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
I have a few nursing covers and used one while I was in the hospital. I threw the lighter one in my purse. We have a private nicu room with a curtain that can be pulled at the entrance and I pumped with it that way the first few times. I was organizing the baby stuff and noticed I have a bunch of nursing covers. I have a shirt type, a hat type, two nursing covers with a rigid flexible top wire (one made with a thicker fabric material and one thinner). I wasn't out in public but I felt pretty comfortable using it. I don't have any issues with people BF without a cover but for me I wanted some extra privacy when I BF so that's why I got nursing covers. (Plus, I've always been more conservative on showing skin.) Since it's so light and has that flexible plastic top to it, I can definitely see myself using it again, if I had to BF at the mall or something.
grapefruit / 4663 posts
For my first I always covered for this one I do the pull the tank top down and my shirt up trick. I'm covered and she gets to eat without a blanket on her head. She's a very hot-natured kid too.
pomegranate / 3643 posts
I just wear a v neck and pull my shirt down to nurse. I don't really care if anyone sees my breasts.
pear / 1503 posts
I've tried several things, but what works for us best is either nothing, or an A+A swaddle tied in a knot around my neck and sort of hanging in the middle. I don't use it to cover LO up or over his head, because sweaty! Instead, it's discretely covering most of my upper chest, and is ready to soak up milk spray when he pops off suddenly, or when he drools. It's multi-functional!
coconut / 8854 posts
I always use a nursing cover if I'm out of the house in public. If I have company over at home I will also use a nursing cover.
pineapple / 12053 posts
Depended on where I was and how old my kiddo was. When she was little and took forever, I wore a hooter hider type thing. Then an A&A blanket and then I didn't care because she got faster and more efficient.
pomegranate / 3401 posts
I feel most comfortable using an actual cover because usually when I'm nursing in public I'm doing other things at the same time (eating, chasing around the toddler) etc.
pomelo / 5720 posts
Generally I don't use anything, but occasionally I will use a cover if I'm at a birthday party, out to eat, or with people I know would be uncomfortable with it. I'm pretty discrete when I nurse so I'm not too worried about overexposure.
pomegranate / 3375 posts
My boobs are small, and with a nursing tank under a t-shirt or button-up, I always felt covered enough.
Also, I struggled so much with BFing issues that using a cover just wasn't on my radar.
eggplant / 11716 posts
I didn't answer because I've only done it 3 times and I used two different methods (I have an almost 6 week old). Once, I did the breastfeeding cover, once an A&A blanket.
I'm still using a shield, so it's particularly tricky for me. Also, my LO has a bad latch so I can't just put her on without looking and several tries--so some kind of cover is essential because my nipple is out for quite a while before I get her on correctly.
Even later when (I hope) our latch issues are better, I have pretty huge boobs so I feel like it will always be very visible without a cover.
nectarine / 2821 posts
My go to method is t shirt over tank top, t shirt up tank down. Then when he inevitably pops off 1 million times I can quickly pull the t shirt over. With a blanket, he just acts crazy and would make it much more noticeable punching and kicking the blanket flailing about. Never tried an actual cover though.
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