My 2.5 year old daughter has been fighting her nap for some time now. It has come to the point where she needs a little bit of holding to wind down and fall asleep. When she does nap it is usually 2.5 hours. When she doesn't nap, she gets irritable and needy. When did your lo's drop their nap? I've given up on her napping some days, but am not totally convinced she is ready to drop it.