So my boys are 3 weeks today. Their schedules have been all over the place and we've been doing anything that works to get them to sleep - bouncy seat, swings, pack and play, rocking them in our arms, co-sleeping (though we didn't want to do this!), etc. We are still up for hours during the night trying to get them both fed and back to sleep.

My question is - when do you institute a nighttime routine and how did you decide what would be part of the routine?

Right now, their nursing schedule is so sporadic that I couldn't even fathom when we could consistently start getting them to sleep.