LO is almost 8 months old, eating solids, still breastfed, and I got my period this morning for the first time since becoming pregnant. I'm going back to work in a few months and I'm now starting to wonder about weaning.
How do you do it?
LO is almost 8 months old, eating solids, still breastfed, and I got my period this morning for the first time since becoming pregnant. I'm going back to work in a few months and I'm now starting to wonder about weaning.
How do you do it?
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
Our doctor said that they get their nutrients from the bottle or breast until they're one, so my plan is to wait until her 9 month apt to ask about weaning. Maybe you can try pumping or formula .... but I know your lo doesn't love the bottle. Hopefully some more experienced moms can help!
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
@artbee: Ooh, good one. I'll ask at the 9-months appt. Good call.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
@Rubies: @artbee: I haven't weaned, so I have no idea! My LO's almost 1 and she STILL gets the majority of her nutrients from breastmilk! She eats solids, but not too much. I plan on nursing her for at least another 6-12 months so hopefully she'll start eating more solids and slowly weaning off the boob.
persimmon / 1465 posts
I weaned at 8 months. AF still hadn't returned and we want LO #2 and don't have a lot of time.
I dropped a BF at a time, starting with a day feed. We did replace it with a bottle feed so probably a slightly different situation to yours. I gave it a good week or so before I dropped the next feed. The onky time I had issues was after the last feed was dropped. I had big, hard boobs for a week. I didn't develop mastisis but it was quite uncomfortable.
If you are planning on completely dropping the milk feeds then I guess you just gradually increase the solids and decrease the milk.
grape / 86 posts
@Rubies - Hello stranger! Been meaning to email you to see how you are. Anyhow, nanny started and I've weaned afternoon feeds. When baby doesn't see you, baby won't crave to be BF. LO doesn't do well with sippy so we have to spoon feed some milk after meals. Once I come home, usually around 4ish -- she attacks me. Don't worry about weaning, as it is easy. I didn't feel engorged too much. I still nurse 3-4x vs. 5-6x. I let LO nurse as much as she wants when I'm home. I noticed that LO added a nursing session after bath time. (Bath, Story, Nurse, Sleep) and still STTN. Don't worry too much, as it will come naturally.
pomegranate / 3983 posts
I don't have personal experience yet as LO is 9 months and still BF but from my friends I've heard that they mostly do it naturally. From what I understand usually around 10 or 11 months they start to want a lot more solids and gradually the solids replace BF. By that point they are also learning to use a sippy cup so everything works together.
blogger / pomegranate / 3300 posts
I started weaning my twins at one year so they went from breast feeding to milk with sippy cups. At a year this was our schedule
Wake up - nurse
One hour later solid food breakfast
Sippy cups of water in the playroom if they get thirsty
Snack solid food
Lunch sold food followed by nursing then nap
Snack solid food and sippy cups with water
Dinner solid food
Nurse before bed.
When I went to wean them I prioritized which feelings my LOs wanted most for comfort. For us the night time was the feeding they really wanted to snuggle the most so that was the last one I dropped. The week they turned 1 I dropped the mid day nursing. Because they were twins I always used a nursing pillow and feed them at the same time so I let them lay the same way but gave them a sippy cup. The following week I dropped the morning nursing. This time I let them lay on the pillow in the morning with their cups but put the pillow away for the mid day sippy cups. The third week I took the pillow away at both feedings but was still nursing at night. The fourth week I gave them sippy cups in the evening on the pillow. After that I got rid of the pillow and they took milk in sippy cups.
I had some engorgement but it was mild. I used my pump on th lowest setting twice in that month because it got uncomfortable.
Good luck with weaning! It both sad and a relief. Two weeks after weaning my husband and I went to a hotel while the grandparents watched the kiddos for a night. It was he first time I was able to be away from them so I enjoyed my night of freedom.
hostess / papaya / 10540 posts
Great question! I've been struggling with this, especially since LO will be 1 in a couple of weeks and is as addicted to the boob as ever. My other issue is that he refuses to drink from bottles and sippy cups. Anyone know what to do about that?
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
You can try going right to open cups, I've seen lots of moms go this route.
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