I think it's a little odd, personally. However, I have heard of people doing this before. I probably only would if it was in a desperate need situation. Would you breastfeed someone elses baby or let someone else breastfeed yours?
I think it's a little odd, personally. However, I have heard of people doing this before. I probably only would if it was in a desperate need situation. Would you breastfeed someone elses baby or let someone else breastfeed yours?
nectarine / 2797 posts
If there was no alternative, yes, but I can't think of many situations where that would happen.
pomegranate / 3872 posts
All I can think of is The Hand That Rocks the Cradle! Freaky!
Seriously though, I guess it would depend on if it was very easy for me to pump/breastfeed and who it was for/what was the situation. I guess I would for a sister or my best friend but I would probably pump rather than breastfeed. I might want the same for my baby if I couldn't bf but it would have to be close family or friend and pumping only.
pineapple / 12526 posts
If there was absolutely no other alternative and it was a matter of life and death, yes. If I had another option, hell no. Disease and toxins and all manner of things are passed through breastmilk.
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
I guess I would. But I wouldn't want anyone else breastfeeding my baby.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
I guess I can imagine a situation where it would be necessary-- like, you are trapped in an elevator with someone else's baby or something like that?
I think I would, but like others said, it would have to be a more extreme situation. If pumping ends up being easy for me, I would pump and give the milk to a loved ones LO after I finished BFing my own, in theory. Yeah... it would have to be a really specific situation.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22276 posts
@highwire: Yeah...I kind of think it's a bond I wouldn't want anyone else to share with my baby.
coconut / 8279 posts
I was in a situation where a relative's baby was having a terrible time with formula, crazy reflux, screaming her head off 24/7. I was still nursing DS and I remember thinking if they asked me, I totally would. Of course they didn't and I wouldn't have offered but it was a thought that crossed my mind. It was probably hormones, too, I felt so bad for her!
I wouldn't let someone else BF my LO for the reasons @zippylef mentioned. I was always super-careful of what I was eating and drinking, we're vegetarians, I didn't take anything more than a Tylenol when breastfeeding. I wouldn't trust anyone/everyone to be as mindful of what they were ingesting.
GOLD / papaya / 10166 posts
If it was a life or death situation, then I would but I doubt I would ever end up in that situation.
pomelo / 5073 posts
@JerricaBenton: this! That movie freaked me out!!!!
I'd only do it in a life or death situation.
grapefruit / 4291 posts
Funnily enough when LO was a newborn and I was struggling to get my milk in I quite often thought about how good it would have been to have a wet nurse so my poor baby wasn't starving hungry (I wasn't prepared to give formula for personal reasons)
I totally would breastfeed for a close friend or family and accept breastfeeding from a close friend or family if I was desperate (although I'd prefer pumped milk for bonding and emotional reasons)
honeydew / 7589 posts
I would. I wouldn't just randomly do it, but if there was a need I wouldn't have any qualms about it.
grapefruit / 4400 posts
I would, and I would accept it if needed, too. Funny how most people have responded that they would feed someone else's baby, but wouldn't allow their baby to be breastfeed by someone else.
grapefruit / 4056 posts
When Sawyer was younger and refusing to bottle feed I would absolutely have wanted someone to BF him if something happened to me where I couldn't (ie death or hospitalization). Now he is older and will take a sippy, so I would prefer he be given milk other ways. I would totally BF someone elses baby if I needed to for some reason.
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