honeydew / 7091 posts
That's twice my age, so probably not. I'm not against older men (if I were still dating, obv), but that's a little too 'older' for me. And, like others, my Dad only just turned 50!
coconut / 8483 posts
@rachiecakes: he looks SO young!
Probably not - I'm 25 and so is DH. I do love me some Brad Pitt though!
pomelo / 5041 posts
@rachiecakes: I'm a grandma because DH has a daughter older than me lol.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
Hmm we are 7 year difference and I can already notice the difference, I don't know if I could go much older than that!
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
Probably not. I always had better luck with guys closer to my own age.
clementine / 957 posts
I don't know if I could realistically find a 50 year old that I had enough in common with to date but I wouldn't have been opposed to it.
GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts
Yessssss! But I'm older than most of you lovelies! But there are some serious contenders here . . . Daniel Day Lewis, Liam Neeson, Pierce Brosnan, Brad Pitt, Denzel Washington . . .
ETA: Robert Downey Jr. and Rob Lowe are also pushing 50 . . .
coconut / 8305 posts
Idk, maybe. Up until just a few years ago people would mistaken my dad (52 this year) for my bf/dh all. the. time... It was really really weird since he's my dad, but I guess if the guy looked young enough then his actual age wouldn't matter so much. lol
Picture nurse asking "Would you like me to go get your husband now" when my dad waited in the waiting room before my surgery. hahaha right (?), not! lol
coconut / 8279 posts
@looch: thanks! and I agree on the younger.. I honestly don't think I've ever dated anyone less than 10 years older than me! (didn't really date much anyway, but still..)
@Mrs. Champagne: people say that all the time! he's way younger than me in terms of lifestyle, he's self employed in the music industry, plays on a street hockey league three times a week.. I'm the one that works 40+ hours, takes care of all of our appointments, etc.
@marionberry: hehe
We've been together for well over a decade and always planned to be 'one and done' - I always felt like I was never a 'kid' person based on everyone else's kids, I never babysat, etc. - but now that we have DS, I'd have 10 if I could! Don't know if we'll ever have a second because of our ages... though DH's dad was 52 when he was born, so who knows!
pear / 1799 posts
@Rubies: I started dating my husband when I was 20, so at the time, no I wouldn't have dated a 40 year-old even ... Now that I'm almost 30, I'm sure it wouldn't bother me that much. BUT, I love that DH & I were born in the same year.
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts
@rachiecakes: haha I'm the same way... not a kid person at all, hated babysitting, still don't like most other peoples' children...but man, if I can have another DD?? Yes please! And I agree with pps, he doesn't look that much older than you, and y'all are just adorable!!
cantaloupe / 6687 posts
@rachiecakes: you are a hot couple!!! My best friend is married to a guy 16 years older than her too...it's their 10 year anniversary next year. They have 2 beautiful children and an amazing life together.
I love Johnny Depp so if I was single I would definitely date him!
pear / 1556 posts
I would! I tend to like older guys. DH is 10 years older than me, and my ex was....20 years older than me! I'm a couple months shy of 32 so that would be less than my age difference with my ex.
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
@rachiecakes: Same! I think the youngest guy I've seriously dated was 8 or 9 years older than me. My DH is almost 20 years older!
coconut / 8279 posts
@Bookish: thank you! haha, I never knew that 'mom' was in me until I met DS, he is the center of my universe. I love being a mom more than I never could have imagined.
@sandy: thanks! we'll be celebrating 14 years together in February!
grapefruit / 4923 posts
probably, but it would be a 13-year age difference as opposed to, say, a 25-year age difference. not sure how i feel about the latter--it's hard to imagine that at 25 i would have had enough in common with a 50-year old, but you never know.
nectarine / 2063 posts
In a different life maybe. It might be fun to be the secret but exclusive girlfriend of an older man who spent time & money on you.
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
I don't know. I think probably not, but it would depend on the guy. Unfortunately, it would not be Johnny Depp--my The Ex was a poor man's Johnny Depp, and that would just be too much.
grapefruit / 4817 posts
Probably not. I can't imagine there are too many 50 year olds out there that I would have enough in common with to actually marry. I think it really has to be a perfect combination for it to be successful, because the age difference can eventually start to show. My mom married my dad when she was 20 and he was 40, and it did not work out. At all. I honestly don't think I'd go more than 10 years in difference, so 40.
clementine / 899 posts
Doubt it. My Dad is only 45, so that would be way too weird.
When MIL and FIL married, she was in her early 20s and he was in his 50s. I've always wanted to ask her what she saw in someone her Dad's age... I might get SIL to find out, since that's something she can ask, not really me.
pomelo / 5000 posts
Oh yeah. Lots of sexy older men out there. People in my family all thought I would end up with an older man. My DH is only 2 years older.
GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts
No but I'm 23.
What would a 50 year old have in common with me? I mean what would a 50 year old be looking for in me anyhow?!
bananas / 9973 posts
@rachiecakes: Aww! So cute!
Yup, if I were single and he was someone I really liked! I've always dated older though (I think my biggest age gap was ~ 13 years). I think the question totally depends on how old you are though. I'm 33 so it doesn't sound as crazy as @googly-eyes: who is 23! lol!
coconut / 8861 posts
I wouldn't. I know someone whose engaged to a 48 year old man with three kids in high school. That's a lot to marry into.
blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts
My husband is younger than me. I've never really been interested in older men. I'm a little sad that I'm just 5 years younger than some of your dads!
GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts
@shopaholic: Right? I don't mean any offense by it but at a certain point you have to stop and wonder what each person brings to the relationship...There are people who have lived beyond their years, but for me that would just be too much. I guess never say never but I can say with 99.999999% confidence no.
bananas / 9973 posts
@cascademom: Thanks!
@googly-eyes: No offense! At some point, you just think "ewww" haha
cantaloupe / 6610 posts
My dad is young, he's only 55 NOW, so me personally, I could not imagine dating someone my Dad's age. However, I truly believe that you just can't help who you fall in love with. That's all there is to it. And if my DH was 50 instead of 33, I'd still be in love with him. So whatever works for each person/couple!
cherry / 149 posts
I would if we had enough in common for a relationship to be likely to succeed. He'd be older than my parents though, so that would be weird.
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
@MsLipGloss: @Andrea: Liam Neeson is my old man crush. Love him.
pineapple / 12793 posts
As a 32yo yes, as a 22yo no.
My mil was 23 when she married my then 55year old FIL. Their relationship was a disaster. He already had six kids, most of whom were her age or older. It's still awkward to this day.
coconut / 8430 posts
I don't know... I think I'd have a hard time with the age gap. But if my DH was 50 I guess it might have still worked!
I can't believe some of those celebs are pushing 50!
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