It is such happy news, I feel badly that I am dreading it!

I'm a lawyer in a law firm that is pretty family friendly and has a generous maternity leave policy. The kicker is that many women have taken advantage of it in recent years and so I know when I announce they will be happy for me, but secretly thinking "dang, another one taking leave!!" Also there have been a few other lawyers who have left in the past month or so so there's been a lot of changes here.

I need to either tell them in the next few days (13 weeks) or at 16+ weeks because I have a big trial starting and won't have time to announce it. I'm inclined to just get it over with since everyone else in my life knows and I just feel like I have this big, obvious secret!

Did you dread telling work about your pregnancy?? How did it turn out?