My #1 goal was to have healthy children. Gender was completely secondary to that.

For baby #1, I was ever so slightly rooting for a girl. I think it would've been hard on me to have two girls though. Because with our two lady cats, that would've been five ladies in the house versus one outnumbered guy!

For baby #2, I was rooting for a girl again... just so that we might have one of each. This time, I got it right. 50% chance, I guess!

But like I said, I wasn't really that focused on gender overall. I just wanted our kids to be healthy and happy!

Do you and your SO have a gender preference for your kids?