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@MrsDragon: good! I'm so glad to hear that!!

I'm sorry for your losses! I also had two in a row, I saw a couple of physicians, all said they weren't concerned until 3. When I finally got pregnant a third time I called my midwife that day and asked if I could come in for a quick test to confirm and to ask questions. They were very obliging and got me in that afternoon. I went back a couple of weeks later, earlier then they recommended just because I wanted to, and they let me have an early ultrasound at 6 weeks to see the heart beat. I was paranoid and annoying patient for a few months, but the midwife was very sympathetic and gave into my pleas. She even said I could call and go in for a doppler if I ever wanted to, which some days I did, because I had flashbacks of miscarriages and would get scared.
Getting pregnant after a miscarriage or two is exciting and terrifying, I really bennifitted from a midwife who understood my fears and let me take unnessary tests and screenings so I could be reassured.

@Keybee: yes, regarding "paranoid and annoying": at my last appointment I asked my OB if this happened because I didn't floss enough, or because I picked up my 75-lb dog a lot, before telling her that I'd live in their office if I could. I don't want to be their crazy-lady patient, but your approach sounds like the only way to get through the fear. So, so glad to hear it finally worked out for you.

@MrsDragon: yes, I felt so much more re-set physically after my first cycle *last* time--my hormones were going insane the entire month after the D&C. this time, though, I honestly am just fine already, which I think is probably because my hcg levels and progesterone never actually got that high. I'm glad you're feeling better and so happy you're able to try again. xx

PS: does anyone know what happened to @simplyfelicity? I went to go answer a message she wrote on my wall yesterday, and her account is shut down--she was so active, I'm surprised to see her gone.