blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@NaturallyCathy: you should be able to do a private message. I did when I did this last year.
honeydew / 7687 posts
@NaturallyCathy: @SugarplumsMom: yep I'd ask for the real name as a secret question. I know lots of folks didn't put theirs because its publiy visible!
Let the sleuthing begin! Woot!
honeydew / 7091 posts
Is it preferred that we add to our wishlist so it's easier for whoever drew you to think of gift ideas?
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
Got my match and she's a genius for including her HB name already. Ha! She doesn't have a wishlist yet though. D'oh!! Call me weird/childish, but I'm so excited this exchange. Mainly sending a gift because who doesn't love packages right???
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
@swurlygurl: I think so! Because for me, I'm not creative and by default, it'd be a gift card to somewhere. While that's great, I think physically receiving a package would be funner!
grapefruit / 4442 posts
aww boo my person doesn't have a wish list either. Are we allowed to reveal when we send their present?
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
@bunnylove08: I think we should have another thread for the gifts. Then everyone can post a picture of what they got.
Although I will probably wait till after Thanksgiving to open mine!
coconut / 8279 posts
I think I'm going to ask some questions with that option on Elfster, to get to know my match better
This is fun!
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
@rachiecakes: That is what I was thinking. Make it the first official present for Christmas!
bananas / 9628 posts
this made my morning! i was so excited to see who i got matched with and this morning i slept oddly late and when i woke up the first thing i did was check to see if the match email was there- it was! i just spent a long time HB stalking and bookmarking threads with ideas for them. let the holidays begin! yay!!!!
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
Yay! I love giving people gifts!
Whoever drew me is on the ball this AM...I just opened my email to see my matches, and 3 questions! If you got me and are reading this I'll get on and make a wish list and all that as soon as I put E down for a nap!
bananas / 9227 posts
Is "Ask a Question" the same thing as "Send a Message" and which one is secret (won't show who it's from)?
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@SugarplumsMom: you should be able to check a box to send an anonymous message. I did that last year. Otherwise it is not anonymous.
@bunnylove08: yes! reveal with the gift/card
persimmon / 1171 posts
I didn't want to make a wish list because I'm super okay with ANYTHING, I hope that's okay. Did we decide people should make wish lists? (:
honeydew / 7091 posts
@hellocupcake: I always feel awkward asking for specific gifts, but as a gift-giver, it's really hard to come up with ideas when you don't know a person very well. For that reason, I went ahead and started adding things. It's kind of fun to find a bunch of stuff you want
coconut / 8475 posts
@hellocupcake: I am the same way. I look at the wish lsit as a rough guide. For example: if a person has a ton of paint, canvas, pencil, paint brushes on their list, you can conclude they really like to draw! And then maybe get them something to go with that and maybe add a $10 giftcard to jo-ann's or something. That's the way I regard wish lists.
coconut / 8475 posts
@Smurfette: OMGOSH! Yes. We should totally all open our gifts on the same day and then post pictures onto a thread.
bananas / 9628 posts
@hellocupcake: i didn't make a wishlist, i did put that i don't drink coffee, i feel like it's a common gift, but i don't drink it, and i put that i don't need alcohol (really i do need this, but we don't keep booze in the house ) because it's another common gift but i'd have to dump it and then i'd feel bad. other than that, i will happily receive whatever comes my way! i think it's kind of neat when people don't have wishlists because it forces you to do some stalking/ask questions and get to know them. but i'm sure the wishlists are helpful for lots of people so i don't see any harm in doing them! either way it's fun!
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
I feel like...well I've added some to mine, things I'd really like but wouldn't treat myself to...and in a situation like this when I don't know someone very well I'd rather KNOW I'm getting them something they really want rather than guessing and hoping.
But I do feel awkward requesting things, and if whomever has me is reading this, please feel free to completely disregard said wish list...if you'd like to use it to make the decision easier for yourself awesome, that's why it's there, but if not, that's awesome too!
bananas / 9227 posts
@TurtleDoves: "We should totally all open our gifts on the same day and then post pictures onto a thread."
That would be awesome!
coconut / 8861 posts
I'm excited about who I got paired with. She doesn't have a wishlist, but I'm sure that I'll find something awesome!
honeydew / 7687 posts
If whoever has me is irritated that I have zero ideas listed, I'm getting on it tonight!
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
Question: The exchange date is Nov 17, does that mean we have to have our gifts EXCHANGED by then or just bought?
Also do the gifts get delivered to the buyer first and then we mail them to our draw or do they go straight to our draws house?
This may have already been made clear but I joined this kind of late. Lol
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
@Danizaur: Not sure what the rule is, but I'm going to have mine delivered by Nov 17 and I'm having it shipped directly to the giftee because it'll save on shipping costs instead of shipping to me than to her.
watermelon / 14467 posts
To my secret pal: I'm sorry I don't have many things on my wish list. I will love whatever you pick out.
bananas / 9357 posts
@Danizaur: the 17th is a mail by date, so just get it in the mail by then. Also, if you're buying something online, I would just have it sent directly to recipient unless you want to pay for shipping twice. I figure if I buy something online, I'll have it gift wrapped and sent to them then send them a card.
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
Whomever drew me, I sent you an apology email. I clicked on the wrong thing and now I feel terrible!! Like a greedy lil DB!!! UGH!!!!
bananas / 9357 posts
@Pepper: you can send it early. I think we are just supposed to mail by the 17th!
eeek! I need to get on my gift for this exchange. The kid one, we are supposed to open black friday then all post pics. Are we doing that for this exchange too?
honeydew / 7687 posts
@Pepper: Yep I mailed mine!
@mrskc: sounds good to me! You know, if I can have that much self control to just not open presents..
pomegranate / 3863 posts
Ugh. I ordered something for my match and the place I bought it from is being SO shady regarding a ship date. So I might have to think of a plan B. Still super excited about gifting my person though!!
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
I think I'm going to buy/ship mine tomorrow! Hope my giftee likes it!!!
coconut / 8475 posts
@Alivoo01: i'm waiting until the 17th only because my gift won't be in until then dang Etsy.
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