ETA - changed title.

How do you usually celebrate your birthday?

In my 20s, it was easy to get together with friends for a night on the town, wknd trip, etc. Since I've known him, DH always goes all out with gifts/flowers/dinner/etc the whole 9.

I told him for my birthday this year (31) that I'd just like a quiet/nice dinner out, just the two of us. No gifts or anything over the top. We'll likely have cake/dinner with DS and our parents at home on the wknd.