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A Magical Month of BFPs aka December POAS!

  1. mfa_lady

    pomegranate / 3921 posts

    @kate6214: Fingers crossed, lady!

  2. Mrs.Panda

    nectarine / 2358 posts

    @littlek: Tested with a Wondfo and a FRER and BFN, not even a shadow. Starting to think I didn't really O this month. Waiting for a call back from the OB. Wah.

  3. littlek

    GOLD / squash / 13576 posts

    @Mrs.Panda: I'm sorry

  4. cmbknyc

    kiwi / 630 posts

    @littlek: I"m sorry, hugs!!!!

  5. cmbknyc

    kiwi / 630 posts

    @mfa_lady: well I'm glad I'm not alone, lol. I only had it for a couple days, now it's all back to normal. I hope your wait ends soon, I remember how long those 6 weeks were for me

  6. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    @Cole: We're in the same boat - O should be happening between Christmas and New Year. While we're at my in-laws. That should make for a lot of sneakiness - sneaky OPKs, sneaky BDing, sneaky progesterone. What fun

  7. bhbee

    cantaloupe / 6086 posts

    @whatsarahsaid: fingers crossed for you I think it sounds promising!!! can't wait to hear good news!

  8. whatsarahsaid

    cherry / 235 posts

    @bhbee: Thanks for the support ladies. We'll see if I stay strong and wait to test! I'm kind of getting anxious to test tonight. But I think 11 DPO is a little early.

  9. sandy

    cantaloupe / 6687 posts

    @Mrs.Panda: sorry

  10. deactivated_account

    GOLD / pomegranate / 3938 posts

    @whatsarahsaid: I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you! I do think 11DPO is certainly too early to be disappointed if you test negative.

  11. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @Littlebit: what a beautiful quote. I think in a lot of ways, that perfectly sums up a lot of our TTC journeys. I know I felt that way for a long time-we had to wait almost two years longer than I would have liked to TTC, and I remember crying so many times while we waited, and as our journey unfolded. Even now, halfway into this pregnancy, I still feel like that sometimes-like, how did I get here? Why isn't it everything magical that I thought it would be? But we're all on our own path, and each one is lonely. The best we can do is to be there for each other!

  12. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @littlek: @mrs. tictactoe: FWIW, I never temped at the same time each morning, just when I got up, before I peed, and I was still able to discern a pattern.

    @whatsarahsaid: oh darlin, that sounds super suspicious. I hear you on the "not being able to ignore" part-my last two BFPs, I just knew, because I couldn't ignore my body anymore. I am hopeful for you, but also sending you strength, because it's scary. I couldn't even test for this baby because I was way too freaked out-scared of being disappointed with a BFN, but completely terrified of a BFP. Sending you love and peace and hopes for a sticky baby

  13. mfa_lady

    pomegranate / 3921 posts

    @whatsarahsaid: Big hugs, lady. Hope there's good news in your near future.

  14. deactivated_account

    GOLD / pomegranate / 3938 posts

    Does anyone's OBGYN require that you temp? I'm not temping and have absolutely no desire to ever do that. Is it something I might be required to do down the line if I don't get pregnant on my own soon?

  15. septca

    GOLD / pomegranate / 3688 posts

    @MrsMcD: on the contrary, my OB thought I was a little crazy when I brought in my charts. Although she did get on board with treatment really quickly once she knew I was ovulating and very regular. Although she follows the 12-month rule in general, she said most women should be able to get pregnant within 6 if they are charting... I think most doctors will just order bloodwork rather than looking at your charts.

  16. deactivated_account

    GOLD / pomegranate / 3938 posts

    @septca: Thanks! I just want to be sure I am not missing a necessary step in case it gets to that point for me.

  17. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @MrsMcD: I don't think most require it, and I think @septca: is right-many don't put much stock in charts. Mine does, but that's because he specializes in NFP, so charts are a routine thing for most of his patients.

  18. deactivated_account

    GOLD / pomegranate / 3938 posts

    @LovelyPlum: Thanks! Are you back on the TTC threads already??

  19. MrsMccarthy

    honeydew / 7295 posts

    @MrsMcD: I think charting is the only way to confirm ovulation on your own. OPKs can be wrong because you can make LH when you are not ovulating. Just throwing that in because even though its a pain in the butt I do think temping can be wry valuable if you are having unmonitored cycles and while I have had some great OB/GYN most of them are not super savvy where fertility is concerned so it might be helpful for you to be on top of educating yourself. I had to ask my OB to check my AMH as well as FSH and I'm glad I did because my FSH was normal but AMH was on the low side.

  20. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @MrsMcD: LOL, no! I'm only 23 weeks But I like to keep tabs on my lovelies!

  21. deactivated_account

    GOLD / pomegranate / 3938 posts

    @LovelyPlum: I tease!!! So happy you are doing well!

  22. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @MrsMcD: thank you! And I can't wait for you to get your BFP

  23. littlek

    GOLD / squash / 13576 posts

    @MrsMcD: I'll let you know tomorrow.. Dr appt at 11.. Fingers crossed my baby making parts are ok.

  24. deactivated_account

    GOLD / pomegranate / 3938 posts

    @littlek: I am absolutely keeping my fingers crossed for you!

  25. MrsMccarthy

    honeydew / 7295 posts

    @littlek: fingers crossed!! Still not convinced you aren't pregnant already.

  26. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    @littlek: good luck tomorrow!

  27. sandy

    cantaloupe / 6687 posts

    @littlek: hoping everything is ok! Good luck tomorrow!

  28. sapphire

    nectarine / 2173 posts

    @chibee: looks pretty dang positive! best of luck!

  29. FaithFertility

    eggplant / 11861 posts

    @chibee: tons of positive thoughts and prayers your way.......congratulations!:)

  30. fotolori1

    apricot / 386 posts

    @lindsayinny: Maybe all the distractions and fun of being sneaky will relax you right into getting pregnant! Something about sneaking around makes it so much fun!!!

  31. T.H.O.U.

    wonderful clementine / 24134 posts

    @MrsMcD: my OB was happy to see my charts but wasn't as concerned with temping specifically (just tracking I through CM and opk)

  32. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    @fotolori1: If only that worked a year ago at Christmas! Seriously, what are the odds that this happens two years in a row?!

  33. fotolori1

    apricot / 386 posts

    Haha! I cant imagine trying to do all that at my inlaws house. I will be secretly giggling that week when this crosses my mind! Good luck!

  34. Mrs.Panda

    nectarine / 2358 posts

    I spoke with my Ob's office today and they told me to go ahead and start taking Provera to trigger my period and to do one more round of Clomid with a progesterone blood level done on CD25. I'm kind of annoyed because I asked for one this cycle at around CD23 but I was told to use OPK's. I returned the message (this is through the internet) saying that I have not had a positive OPK yet and they just got back to me today on CD31 telling me this. Kind of annoyed that I could have had the blood work already if they had listened to me in the first place. Whatever, on to the next one. Good luck to the rest of you ladies! I'll still be lurking!

  35. cmbknyc

    kiwi / 630 posts

    @Mrs.Panda: ugh I'm so sorry!! ((Hugs))

  36. loopedd

    kiwi / 536 posts

    I think I am today's only POAS-er and I'm afraid I have no good news. I didn't have a good feeling about this month since I never got a blazing +OPK and we were somewhat lame in our BD-ing anyway. So, HPT this morning and I have none left so that's it for now!

    Seems like a good place to mention that I saw my GP last week and she thinks I'm a good (haha) candidate for PCOS, given some symptoms over the years. Good news is she looooves diagnostic testing, so I got a ton of blood drawn to check hormones (and everything else under the sun) and had a pelvic ultrasound. Going back Thursday to talk through results with her. I love that she wants to get stuff figured out, even aside from trying to get pregnant. Unsure what a potential diagnosis would mean, treatment-wise, since we're only 4 cycles in, but I love information. Onward!!

  37. however briefly

    cherry / 249 posts

    @loopedd: So sorry it doesn't appear to be working out for you this month but I'm very happy it looks like you will be getting some answers soon. Not knowing is usually much harder than definite answers, in my opinion. Hoping for good things in your future!

  38. deactivated_account

    GOLD / pomegranate / 3938 posts

    @loopedd: I'm so sorry about your bfn, but your gp sounds awesome!! Isn't it funny to be so excited about a doctor who likes to "over" test?

  39. littlek

    GOLD / squash / 13576 posts

    @loopedd: boo I'm sorry

  40. mediagirl

    hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts

    @whatsarahsaid: thinking of you and hopeful, too!!!!

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