Was there a phase or milestone your LO went through that you were not expecting? Maybe it happened sooner than you were anticipating or there was a phase you had no idea you'd have to deal with?
Currently dealing with LO1's need to have things perfect/picked up and in order. It's nice at times but becomes overkill sometimes as well. I love that she loves to have a clean room but she can't sleep unless everything is out away. LO2 is the complete opposite, which drives LO1 nuts!