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  1. MrsSCB

    pomelo / 5257 posts

    @Miss Ariel: the thing is, the police didn't know whether or not his gun was legal and Louisiana is an open carry state. If someone has a gun in their pocket, the automatic response should obviously not be to shoot them, since it is perfectly legal for people to carry weapons on their person. Not that that should be the automatic response anyway...To me this is a fundamental problem with the idea that the general public should be armed wherever they go. How are people to know which firearms are legal and which aren't? And guns can do harm in a split second. Anyway, history shows many seem to think when a white man carries a gun, he's exercising his rights and when a black man carries a gun he's a threat.

  2. daniellemybelle

    cantaloupe / 6669 posts

    I'm hurting a lot over this today. I saw a quote on Facebook from Ta-Nehesi Coates: "The violence is not new. It's the cameras that are new." I get the sense that a lot of people would prefer if there weren't a spotlight on this tragic issue and that everyone could go back to having their heads in the sand.

    It makes me scared and sad raising a black daughter.

  3. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @MrsSCB: It's my understanding that Philando Castile informed the officer who had stopped him that he had a conceal carry license and was reaching for his wallet when he was shot. I don't understand how things went wrong when he informed the officer of his weapon, was asked for ID, and then was shot while trying to get the ID.

  4. daniellemybelle

    cantaloupe / 6669 posts

    And one of the things that makes me sad and scared are people, good people, that I love and that love us - our brown family - but don't want to believe this is a problem or are opposed to "Black Lives Matter." I don't even know what to do with that.

  5. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @daniellemybelle:

  6. agold

    grapefruit / 4045 posts

    @psw27: I didn't see the first part of the video for the car stop. Has anyone seen it? But I can think of a number of reasons to shoot someone who is sitting in a car. It happens all the time. Its so sad though. I know there is an assumption that the man who was shot was a perfectly complying citizen. But I also like to assume that the officer had a reasonable reason to fear for his life and thats why he shot. But we can't really know until we see the whole video.

    @Maysprout: Its too bad that you've had negative experiences with police officers amongst all of your other good experiences with officers.

  7. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @agold: @psw27: I don't believe his girlfriend started filming until after he had been shot.

  8. agold

    grapefruit / 4045 posts

    @Adira: The officers did not just approach the suspect randomly. There was a 911 call made that reported the suspect was doing something with the weapon. Brandishing it, assaulting someone, being a threat to the public, or I don't know what... But it wasn't a random stop and frisk.

    ETA: opps. I think I'm mixing up the two cases! So sorry!

  9. agold

    grapefruit / 4045 posts

    @Adira: That could very well be the case regarding the filming of the car stop. Do you know if the officer had a body camera on?

  10. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @agold: Sorry, I was referring to Philando Castile who was shot after he had been pulled over for a busted tail light. The 911 call about a gun is in reference to Alton Sterling who was shot outside a convenience store.

    ETA: Oops - replied as you did your ETA!

  11. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @agold: I read that the officers in that area do not wear body cams, so unfortunately, I don't think there's an visual evidence for what happened prior to the shooting.

  12. agold

    grapefruit / 4045 posts

    @MrsSCB: I don't think that just because someone is white and carrying a gun, police and public won't care. People can look like pieces of shit no matter their race. So a white guy hopped up on meth carrying a gun and breaking into houses, white supremacist gang member carrying a gun, a white biker gang member carrying a gun, or Vietnamese gang members carrying guns (just trying to think of all the pieces of shit that surround my community).. no one assumes that they are carrying guns for lawful reasons. They look and act dangerous. All these guys are getting shot if they don't comply with the officers and pose a threat to the public or the officers.

  13. hilsy85

    squash / 13764 posts

    @agold: but what does that comment have to do with the cases people are discussing? Neither of the black men that were shot and killed were hopped up on meth, or gang members...they were just Black.

  14. psw27

    pomelo / 5220 posts

    @agold: Yeah there isn't a video of the car stop prior to him being shot. I'm sure there are instances where someone "deserves" to be shot and the officer is actually at risk.... but I just don't think it happened here with a four year old little girl sitting right behind him.

  15. lilyann

    nectarine / 2878 posts

    @agold: When my white DH was carrying and got pulled over for speeding and told them he had a conceal carry, they didn't shoot him. In fact, he didn't even get a ticket for speeding.

  16. agold

    grapefruit / 4045 posts

    @hilsy85: Oh, I'm sorry. My comment didn't have anything to do with either of these cases. My comment was just responding to the prior general comment that a white guy with a gun is presumed to be doing nothing wrong.

    And I actually don't know if either of the two men at issue were on drugs or not. Or if they were gang members. Do you? I haven't heard one way or another.

  17. agold

    grapefruit / 4045 posts

    @lilyann: That's great for your husband. I haven't been shot when pulled over either. Neither have any of my black or asian friends. Phew.

  18. hilsy85

    squash / 13764 posts

    @agold: But you were talking specifically about a white guy with a gun who (in your words) "looks like a piece of shit"--that's not really a comparison to these two men, who were, again, presumably not on drugs, or in a gang, or anything like that. I honestly have no idea, but I would have no more reason to suspect that of them than any random person that I would see on the street, which is to say, not at all.

    ETA not trying to pick on your wording at all, I just found it interesting that as you said for white people, looking suspicious in some way would be a prerequisite for the police caring about whether they have a gun/concealed carry. Where as for black people, it seems that just being black often makes them suspicious enough to the police without any other factors at play. This seems to be the case...

  19. lilyann

    nectarine / 2878 posts

    @agold: So glad you live in a place without racial profiling. Wish I could say the same for my friends of different races.

  20. mrsjazz

    coconut / 8234 posts

    Alton Sterling: not a gang member, though he did have a criminal record.

    Philando Castile: not a gang member, no record. If he had a record we would have seen his mugshot plastered all over the news.

    There was this DJ who said something yesterday like, the problem he has with cops is that they don't ever want to point at another officer and say -- no, you don't do your job well and never want to say that a bad job has been done.

    Let's not just go ahead and defend all officers who are afraid for their lives...some officers shouldn't be on the job or shouldn't police in communities when they look at certain people as other. Sure, the percentage of bad cops is very low compared to good cops but that's not going to help these families sleep at night.

  21. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @mrsjazz: I saw an article about that DJ rant and totally agree. While in general, I believe most police officers are good people who try to do the right thing, that doesn't mean they are never at fault. It oftens feels like, after a tragedy like this, we try to find reasons why it happened to defend the police officer in question, when sometimes there really is no defense. Not saying that we should automatically assume a police officer involved in a shooting is guilty of a crime, but neither should we just assume that the person who was shot deserved to be shot.

  22. travellingbee

    hostess / papaya / 10219 posts

    @mrsjazz: My husband and I have talked about this many times. We have discussed the fact that there are people who are not good at their job in every field. I am a teacher and there are many bad teachers. I know several bad teachers. I know many good teachers. The difference is, when a police officer is not a good police officer, he's carrying a deadly weapon and in stessful situations.

  23. Mrsbells

    squash / 13199 posts

    @lawbee11: These stories just hurt my heart now. I lived in Europe for many years and things like this just didnt happen. The number of people killed by cops in this country is a joke and all my family and friends in europe think its insane. The worst thing is that it just repeats itself and more often than not the "good cops" look the other way or corroborate the story of the bad cops and there is no justice.

  24. Miss Ariel

    nectarine / 2210 posts

    @MrsSCB: you're right you would have no way of knowing if the gun was legal or not until after the fact.

    But if you have an illegal gun on you I can't imagine you tell police, which is what Philadro did do and Alton didn't from what I've read.. Although police had been called to Alton because of being threatened with a gun so they already suspected one was there.

  25. MrsSCB

    pomelo / 5257 posts

    @Miss Ariel: And yet both incidents ended the same way. So it seems no matter what these men did, it wouldn't have been enough to save them. Simply possessing a gun somehow made them threatening, even though so many in this country claim gun ownership to be a fundamental right for all citizens.

    @agold: I think, to be fair, you have to compare apples to apples. Take Castile, for example. I do absolutely believe that if a white man was stopped for having a broken light, and he told the officer he was getting his license and registration, just as the officer asked, and also that he had a gun that he was legally permitted to own in his car, he would not be shot by the officer.

  26. agold

    grapefruit / 4045 posts

    @hilsy85: Sorry. I will say again that my comment doesn't apply to the two men at issue in the news currently. It was just a general response to a general comment from a poster above. I can't think of any officer that I know who would think that just being black is suspicious enough. And I don't know much about the two men at issue in the news to presume one way or another as to whether or not they did anything to cause the officers at issue to fear for their lives. I've seen one picture of the man who was shot in the car - its a picture of him standing with two children who are pointing guns at the camera. Maybe its a fake picture. I don't know but its the only one I've seen. I totally understand that you will assume they were perfectly respectable citizens at the time of the incident doing nothing to cause the officers to fear for their safety. I am obviously biased in favor of police and choose to assume that both of those men did do something to cause the officers to fear for their safety and I pray that's the case because I hate to think that an officer would shoot and kill a man for no good reason at all. Either way, its sad and tragic all around and I hope that officers can receive better training and that every one involved will do nothing to cause an officer to fear for his safety. I'm sure all of the facts surrounding these incidents will come out one way or another whether it be on CNN or Fox News.

    @lilyann: That sucks to live in an area where you feel racial profiling. However, I think that racial profiling exists everywhere. But probably its worse in the South, but I also think their training sucks. I do know of reasons to profile each different race and find each race suspicious for one reason or another. I not even going going to go into them. But like I said before, my husband just went to training on racial profiling. I wonder if departments across the country have such mandatory continuous training classes.

  27. agold

    grapefruit / 4045 posts

    @MrsSCB: I can totally compare apples to apples. But I haven't seen the full video of that car stop at issue. I don't know what happened before. I have seen one picture of that guy with two kids pointing guns at the camera. If it was a white guy in that same picture, I would be making the same presumption that the guy did something to make the officer fear for his safety. But either way, its so sad and awful. Maybe the officer wasn't well trained and was scared too easily. Maybe he hated black people and shot that guy for no reason. Maybe the guy who was shot was a piece of shit who did something to cause the officer to reasonably fear for his safety. I don't know. I haven't seen what happened. Sucks all around either way.

  28. MoonMoon

    pomegranate / 3393 posts

    I can't stop crying after hearing Diamond and Philando's 4 year-old daughter saying "I'm here with you" to her mommy. Why should a 4 year old have to witness that? Why should anyone? I feel so so so powerless. So powerless.

  29. periwinklebee

    grapefruit / 4466 posts

    I am so sad, for the families and for everyone who is affected in one way or another by incidents like these.

  30. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    Stuff like this breaks my heart and honest to God frightens me. Those men can't get their lives back and that 4 year old will have to live with that horrific memory of the day her dad was shot just inches away from her in a car.

    Last night I prayed my black son doesn't die violently...or at the hands of the police. That may sound melodramatic, but my goodness this world of ours is so crazy.

  31. Maysprout

    grapefruit / 4800 posts

    @agold: I think police officer tribalism is a big part of the problem. It's a unique field, I wouldn't want to have to confront mentally I'll and possibly armed people on a regular basis. But at the same time I can't say that it's normal to just jump to conclusion of innocence either just bc youre in the same field - not saying you have, just a lot of police officers and their families that's the outlook I get.

    I don't think everyone accused of making up data is wrongly accused and Dh doesn't think all malpractice cases are BS, it's just not logical.
    I feel like what's going on with police officers now it's the same sort of denial that happens in any sort of blind tribalism. For example the Catholic Church, a small minority of priests were child abusers but that crap went on for decades pretty much sanctioned by the church as abuse was denied, covered up or priests were just shuffled to a different congregation to abuse elsewhere. It took external pressure to change but really it wasn't until the church really got on board has there been real change - it takes responsibility from within the tribe to effect change.

  32. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    I'm so saddened by these past two shootings (and the others we have seen). It upsets me even more that some of my friends continue to say 'all lives matter' or some think that the media is unfairly bringing light to these situations (conspiracy theories?) . I'm in utter shock that people refuse to see that black lives are being treated very unfairly.

    I'm clearly not black but my heart hurts for my black friends.

  33. agold

    grapefruit / 4045 posts

    @Maysprout: I'm definitely not jumping to conclusions as to guilt or innocence. Except with respect to what what we do know - someone called the police regarding the guy in front of the store doing something menacing with a gun and the guy in the car had a broken tail light. I don't know anything else because I didn't see a video showing the first part of the car stop and I wasn't part of the scuffle in front of the store. I definitely know there is tribalism amongst the police force. It's a scary job and we do all look out for each other's families. But I'm so glad that all of the police families I know consist of great cops, all diverse amongst themselves, who have no desire to cause any injury to anyone and just want to protect their communities. There is, however, a strong desire now, because of the harsh liberal media scrutiny, to stop proactive policing. That would be a sad thing for many communities. It's hard to even want to respond to calls when you know you can be sued for how you respond. . Regarding your comparison to the Catholic Church. That was a sick massive cover up with innocent children being the victims. With police shootings, there is almost always in all cases I can think of a person committing a criminal act; and then a subsequent confrontation with police officers. Of course a criminal doesn't deserve to die, but if he causes a cop to fear for his life, then he is creating that sad situation for himself. So totally different scenarios in my mind. Children being molested versus criminals being shot by police. I think that police need to have better training so they aren't so quick on the trigger. But any time any one has a gun and isn't complying with an officers demands then it's tough to fault an officer who ends up in fear for his own or the public's safety. It's sad that society is now encouraging people to be afraid of police and to question police and in general not comply. I think it would be better to be thrown into jail for a night even if wrongfully so and then pursue a civil rights lawsuit immediately after. There are plenty of attorneys waiting to sue cops and police departments so no problem doing so. As for the two men at issue, I don't have any conclusions about what happened. But the media automatically concludes that these men were choir boys targeted by white cops who hate black people. I haven't seen anything that would lead anyone to that particular assumption. It's so sad all around. So sad for the men who were killed. So sad for the cops who know have to deal with killing someone and all that comes with that. I highly doubt either of these cops went about celebrating their kill. It's horrible. I always pray that my husband stays safe and that he doesn't have to shoot anyone. What a horrible thing all around to have to deal with. When my husband and I watched those videos on the news, all we thought was just that it's a horrible situation. We can't and didn't assume anything about either side.

  34. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    What in the hell is going on in Texas? Snipers firing at cops? It sounds like some cops and robbers movie, only it's real.

    http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-36742835

  35. Maysprout

    grapefruit / 4800 posts

    @agold: in a lot of the cases victims have not been aggressive or criminals.
    But Dallas is ridiculously tragic, I don't even really understand what's happening there. How did what sounds like trained snipers get access to business roofs to cause such horrible tragedies

  36. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    Dallas is just awful. A sniper- my goodness that is some scary shit. There's just too much death.

    Targeting and killing police doesn't help this situation. We can't have cops (more) scared to respond and do their jobs. We certainly don't need to add to the list of shooting victims and leave holes in families- police or not.

  37. catomd00

    grapefruit / 4418 posts

    @MrsSCB: exactly - in this country, if you are black, yoire damned if you don't and damned if you do. Make no mistake, they weren't perceived as threatening because they simply had a gun, they were perceived as threatening because they were black. Plain and simple.

  38. littlebug

    honeydew / 7504 posts

    I read a comment on facebook tht really struck a chord with me. Someone said something along the lines of "All lives WILL matter once the country wakes up and realizes that Black lives DO matter NOW." Black lives have been treated as expendable for too long by too many people. The fact that so many people just don't understand or see that is incomprehensible to me.

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