Before LO, I had an active life with a group of mostly single professional women in their 30s and 40s, I communicated regularly w/ my siblings and although my husband and I had discordant work schedules we managed tons of fun dates throughout the week. By fun I mean going to Costco hungry and buying everything we sampled, but it worked for us. And I even took myself on vacations by myself when I wanted to do something no one else was on board for or needed to be alone.

Then I had a kid who ended up being a sick kid. I suddenly became drastically less available to my social group.
A lot of my friends are married or partnered off but are still child free and still making plans at the drop of the hat that I can't make. And it turned out my sibling relied on me to do most of the reaching out. And any spare time I have after work now is almost always 1:1 w/ LO, as my husband and I still have discordant work schedules. We get about two family evenings a week and no weekend time.

I see friends socially about once a month (if I don't cancel because of LO), which isn't horrible, but I guess I just realized I am kind of lonely in the day to day life. Also, I miss having a friend who is in the same stage of life (working full time w/ a young child, etc).
Are there such things as mommy groups for WOH moms?
I am not devastated or anything, just putting a name to my general angst. Which is good, so I can fix it.

Anyone else been here?