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@cascademom: I cannot believe J is so close to 1 already. I feel like you just had him!
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It's an ongoing discussion. I would love to have a third. DH is done. But we agreed to take no permanent steps until DS2 is 5, so I have some time to convince him
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My husband has a ten year old son, and we have an eight month old together. We definitely want one more, sometime next year hopefully. I would go for a third. My husband isn't wild about the idea, but hasn't totally ruled it out either.
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@pregnantbee: It feels the same way here. I can't believe it's been almost a year since he became part of our family. The interaction between him and E is so much fun. It's getting more fun as they both get older.
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Dooooooooooone done done done done done.
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Done with 3
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Not done! Hoping to add #3 in a few years.
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Currently pregnant and done after this one (#3). I even told my husband to talk to the doctor about vasectomy procedures at his appointment next month so we have that information for next year.
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Currently pregnant with #3. We've always said 3 or 4, and because of the spacing (22 months between the first two, almost 2.5 years between 2 & 3), I feel pretty certain I'd be happy being finished after this baby. DH may still push for #4. We'll see.
Had we waited 3-4 years between 2 & 3, I think I would have wanted another closely spaced set (4 total).
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Done 1 and almost 3 and permenant measures were taken a month after DD was born
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Dd is 17 months and I'm currently pregnant. I think dh is ready to be done after this but I'm not sure. We'll probably wait till this next one is 2 or 3 before making a final decision.
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We are TTC #2 right now, and we want 4. So we are still just beginning!
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I think we're done but not 100% sure. We have two, almost 4 and 5 weeks.
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DS is almost 14mo. By this time, we said we'd be trying for our next, but in reality, we're really not. But in theory, we both want another in the next year or two, but we've kind of tabled that discussion for a little while.
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We're done. We have two kids. DH got a vasectomy a year ago so it's final
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Done done done. Pregnant with #3. 4 kids is not in the cards for us!!
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I really have no idea. We have one, she's 13 months. We both don't know if we want another. I'm 50-50. DH is probably 70-30 (no-yes).
So I don't know. I think about it daily.
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I think we are done, most likely we are done, but not 100% sure. My baby DD2 is only 4 months now so I think we will have a solid answer when she turns 1. She is such a sweet baby, makes me feel like I can totally handle another one. But the sleep deprivation is awful and the pregnancy was so hard on my body.
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99% sure we are good with our two.
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Done!! We have 2 boys!
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Plan for #2 but neither of us can see having 3 or more.
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We are currently pregnant with number 3. I told DH I want to table the discussion after this baby's first birthday. So maybe one more here.
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So very done and happy with our two boys!
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Not sure. I think we may try again in the fall but if I have another loss then I'm 100% done. I thought I was done after my second loss but now that some time has passed I'm open to trying one more time. I guess we'll see where life takes us!
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We have a boy and a girl and are done (though we would have been done at 2 regardless). Leaving the possibility of fostering on the table for the future (distant future) but definitely done with baby-making. The factory is closed.
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We are less than six weeks away from meeting baby #3 and after that, we are done, done, DONE. Three is the perfect number for us and given my age and our lifestyle, we are both perfectly happy to stop here.
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@Portboston: Ditto - #2 is still a BIG maybe.
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We would like a third (we have a 3.5 year old and a nine month old) and will start trying as soon as we are able. But three is my limit. I feel too old and tired to go through it two more times!
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Have two and want one more. Not sure if we want 2 or 3 years between 2 and 3.
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Done done done!! We were on the fence for awhile, and finally after our 2nd turned 3, did we feel completely 100% done. The further we get from the baby years, the less we want to revisit.
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I hope we aren't done, though we'll have to get going soon, due to our age. DD is just about 1yo.
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We are just barely getting started.
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I'm 90% done, DH is 115% done! Haha. We said we would revisit it when dd2 is older, but I think we are going to be a 2 kids family
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I would love to adopt again but I had my tubes tied with my daughter. I have a 7 year old two 6 year olds and a 4 year old.
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Not done. DS is 10 months and I would like two more while DH wants one more.
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dooooone. we would have been done at 2 no matter if we had boys or girls. i feel like i can barely handle 2... can't imagine 3!
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99% not done? i'm thankful for and happy with our 3 (almost 4, 2.5, 6m), but i'm mostly certain there will be a 4th. not sure if we would prefer soonish, or much later.
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I am really happy with our 3 and 2 year old. We are in a great phase in life. There are many times I long for more children though, 2 more would be most ideal for me. I hope I don't regret one day not having more! I don't think we will have more, but it's so hard because I find myself often really wishing that I had another one or two.
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Physically at 35 (and currently 38w4d pregnant) I feel done with baby making. I have a 20 month old son and DS2 is scheduled to arrive on Sunday. DH also doesn't want me to go through another pregnancy because they are hard on me and it would have to be so closely spaced again. And one toddler alone is a handful!
That said, even before we ever got pregnant, we have always felt like we had a daughter in the cards. So while I don't know that I'll go through pregnancy again, we are definitely open to adoption and could see us going that route for a 3rd. When is unclear, but we just don't feel comfortable saying we are totally done because we can't shake that feeling.
As far as permanent measures, neither of us feel comfortable doing anything until we are 40, so 5 more years.
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We have an almost three year old and a 10m old. I HOPE we are not done, although there's a good chance we are
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