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  1. pregnantbee

    grapefruit / 4717 posts

    @cascademom: I cannot believe J is so close to 1 already. I feel like you just had him!

  2. Jess1483

    nectarine / 2641 posts

    It's an ongoing discussion. I would love to have a third. DH is done. But we agreed to take no permanent steps until DS2 is 5, so I have some time to convince him

  3. LindsayLou

    persimmon / 1322 posts

    My husband has a ten year old son, and we have an eight month old together. We definitely want one more, sometime next year hopefully. I would go for a third. My husband isn't wild about the idea, but hasn't totally ruled it out either.

  4. cascademom

    coconut / 8861 posts

    @pregnantbee: It feels the same way here. I can't believe it's been almost a year since he became part of our family. The interaction between him and E is so much fun. It's getting more fun as they both get older.

  5. Ash

    honeydew / 7909 posts

    Dooooooooooone done done done done done.

  6. autumnlove

    hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts

    Done with 3

  7. hilsy85

    squash / 13764 posts

    Not done! Hoping to add #3 in a few years.

  8. whiskers

    kiwi / 657 posts

    Currently pregnant and done after this one (#3). I even told my husband to talk to the doctor about vasectomy procedures at his appointment next month so we have that information for next year.

  9. PinkElephant

    grapefruit / 4584 posts

    Currently pregnant with #3. We've always said 3 or 4, and because of the spacing (22 months between the first two, almost 2.5 years between 2 & 3), I feel pretty certain I'd be happy being finished after this baby. DH may still push for #4. We'll see.

    Had we waited 3-4 years between 2 & 3, I think I would have wanted another closely spaced set (4 total).

  10. jetsa

    grapefruit / 4663 posts

    Done 1 and almost 3 and permenant measures were taken a month after DD was born

  11. Miss Ariel

    nectarine / 2210 posts

    Dd is 17 months and I'm currently pregnant. I think dh is ready to be done after this but I'm not sure. We'll probably wait till this next one is 2 or 3 before making a final decision.

  12. MrsBrewer

    coconut / 8854 posts

    We are TTC #2 right now, and we want 4. So we are still just beginning!

  13. mamabolt

    nectarine / 2797 posts

    I think we're done but not 100% sure. We have two, almost 4 and 5 weeks.

  14. ineebee

    pear / 1580 posts

    DS is almost 14mo. By this time, we said we'd be trying for our next, but in reality, we're really not. But in theory, we both want another in the next year or two, but we've kind of tabled that discussion for a little while.

  15. kodybear

    pear / 1616 posts

    We're done. We have two kids. DH got a vasectomy a year ago so it's final

  16. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    Done done done. Pregnant with #3. 4 kids is not in the cards for us!!

  17. Littlebit7

    nectarine / 2243 posts

    I really have no idea. We have one, she's 13 months. We both don't know if we want another. I'm 50-50. DH is probably 70-30 (no-yes).

    So I don't know. I think about it daily.

  18. Kimberlybee

    grapefruit / 4997 posts

    I think we are done, most likely we are done, but not 100% sure. My baby DD2 is only 4 months now so I think we will have a solid answer when she turns 1. She is such a sweet baby, makes me feel like I can totally handle another one. But the sleep deprivation is awful and the pregnancy was so hard on my body.

  19. Boogs

    hostess / papaya / 10540 posts

    99% sure we are good with our two.

  20. hellobeeboston

    honeydew / 7235 posts

    Done!! We have 2 boys!

  21. sapphire

    nectarine / 2173 posts

    Plan for #2 but neither of us can see having 3 or more.

  22. MrsRcCar

    grapefruit / 4712 posts

    We are currently pregnant with number 3. I told DH I want to table the discussion after this baby's first birthday. So maybe one more here.

  23. travellingbee

    hostess / papaya / 10219 posts

    So very done and happy with our two boys!

  24. petunia354

    pomegranate / 3863 posts

    Not sure. I think we may try again in the fall but if I have another loss then I'm 100% done. I thought I was done after my second loss but now that some time has passed I'm open to trying one more time. I guess we'll see where life takes us!

  25. Mrs. Lion

    blogger / grapefruit / 4836 posts

    We have a boy and a girl and are done (though we would have been done at 2 regardless). Leaving the possibility of fostering on the table for the future (distant future) but definitely done with baby-making. The factory is closed.

  26. Ree723

    grapefruit / 4819 posts

    We are less than six weeks away from meeting baby #3 and after that, we are done, done, DONE. Three is the perfect number for us and given my age and our lifestyle, we are both perfectly happy to stop here.

  27. ms.line

    pear / 1770 posts

    @Portboston: Ditto - #2 is still a BIG maybe.

  28. travelgirl1

    cantaloupe / 6630 posts

    We would like a third (we have a 3.5 year old and a nine month old) and will start trying as soon as we are able. But three is my limit. I feel too old and tired to go through it two more times!

  29. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    Have two and want one more. Not sure if we want 2 or 3 years between 2 and 3.

  30. Mrs. High Heels

    blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts

    Done done done!! We were on the fence for awhile, and finally after our 2nd turned 3, did we feel completely 100% done. The further we get from the baby years, the less we want to revisit.

  31. GoGoSnoGirl

    pear / 1558 posts

    I hope we aren't done, though we'll have to get going soon, due to our age. DD is just about 1yo.

  32. anonysquire

    cantaloupe / 6923 posts

    We are just barely getting started.

  33. Charm54

    cantaloupe / 6885 posts

    I'm 90% done, DH is 115% done! Haha. We said we would revisit it when dd2 is older, but I think we are going to be a 2 kids family

  34. Mrs. Train

    blogger / pomegranate / 3300 posts

    I would love to adopt again but I had my tubes tied with my daughter. I have a 7 year old two 6 year olds and a 4 year old.

  35. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    Not done. DS is 10 months and I would like two more while DH wants one more.

  36. Mrs. Bee

    admin / watermelon / 14210 posts

    dooooone. we would have been done at 2 no matter if we had boys or girls. i feel like i can barely handle 2... can't imagine 3!

  37. tysonja

    nectarine / 2217 posts

    99% not done? i'm thankful for and happy with our 3 (almost 4, 2.5, 6m), but i'm mostly certain there will be a 4th. not sure if we would prefer soonish, or much later.

  38. matador84

    papaya / 10560 posts

    I am really happy with our 3 and 2 year old. We are in a great phase in life. There are many times I long for more children though, 2 more would be most ideal for me. I hope I don't regret one day not having more! I don't think we will have more, but it's so hard because I find myself often really wishing that I had another one or two.

  39. gingerbebe

    cantaloupe / 6131 posts

    Physically at 35 (and currently 38w4d pregnant) I feel done with baby making. I have a 20 month old son and DS2 is scheduled to arrive on Sunday. DH also doesn't want me to go through another pregnancy because they are hard on me and it would have to be so closely spaced again. And one toddler alone is a handful!

    That said, even before we ever got pregnant, we have always felt like we had a daughter in the cards. So while I don't know that I'll go through pregnancy again, we are definitely open to adoption and could see us going that route for a 3rd. When is unclear, but we just don't feel comfortable saying we are totally done because we can't shake that feeling.

    As far as permanent measures, neither of us feel comfortable doing anything until we are 40, so 5 more years.

  40. QBbride

    pomegranate / 3192 posts

    We have an almost three year old and a 10m old. I HOPE we are not done, although there's a good chance we are

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