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  • poll: Are you DONE?
    No, we are not done. : (37 votes)
    22 %
    Not even CLOSE to done. : (16 votes)
    10 %
    We're not done...or maybe we are....I'm still not sure.... : (32 votes)
    19 %
    Oh yes, we are DONE. : (58 votes)
    35 %
    We're done....maybe.. : (22 votes)
    13 %
  1. ALV91711

    pomelo / 5621 posts

    We're not done...or maybe we are.

    DS is 3. We always wanted 2 but then the exhaustion and baby struggles were hard. I was firmly done for quite some time and DH was on the fence. Now I've come around and do want another, but a small part of me is happy with one.

    We've stopped preventing for now but aren't really trying. So I guess we will see what the future holds.

  2. Kemma

    grapefruit / 4291 posts

    There's a 90% chance we'll start trying for a third in the new year and we're both open to having a fourth in the future. Our current babies were born October 2012 and April 2015 so our next would likely be born in late 2017.

  3. CRGmama

    apricot / 324 posts

    We have a 2 year old and a 2 month old. DH is 100000% done. I have always said I wanted 3. I think if LO2 had been a girl I'd be done, but with two boys, I think there is a tiny part of me that wants a 3rd still. I am only 28 and DH is 31 so I feel like we are too young to make a permanent decision. I doubt we will end up with a 3rd but I can't say with 100% certainty that we are done. So I voted "we're done...maybe"

  4. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    We have 1 and are (finally!) pregnant with #2 - but a bit torn on what happens. If all goes well and we have this little lady in October, we'll have some decisions to make. I always wanted three, but after our IF journey and our losses, I just don't know how much I have left in me. Hubby would be perfectly thrilled to stop at 2. But... we also have some embryos left over, so I am inclined to use those as opposed to NOT using the... so there's still time. (I'm 31/hubby is 32).

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