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pomelo / 5621 posts
We're not done...or maybe we are.
DS is 3. We always wanted 2 but then the exhaustion and baby struggles were hard. I was firmly done for quite some time and DH was on the fence. Now I've come around and do want another, but a small part of me is happy with one.
We've stopped preventing for now but aren't really trying. So I guess we will see what the future holds.
grapefruit / 4291 posts
There's a 90% chance we'll start trying for a third in the new year and we're both open to having a fourth in the future. Our current babies were born October 2012 and April 2015 so our next would likely be born in late 2017.
apricot / 324 posts
We have a 2 year old and a 2 month old. DH is 100000% done. I have always said I wanted 3. I think if LO2 had been a girl I'd be done, but with two boys, I think there is a tiny part of me that wants a 3rd still. I am only 28 and DH is 31 so I feel like we are too young to make a permanent decision. I doubt we will end up with a 3rd but I can't say with 100% certainty that we are done. So I voted "we're done...maybe"
pomegranate / 3764 posts
We have 1 and are (finally!) pregnant with #2 - but a bit torn on what happens. If all goes well and we have this little lady in October, we'll have some decisions to make. I always wanted three, but after our IF journey and our losses, I just don't know how much I have left in me. Hubby would be perfectly thrilled to stop at 2. But... we also have some embryos left over, so I am inclined to use those as opposed to NOT using the... so there's still time. (I'm 31/hubby is 32).
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