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At night, did you wake your newborn every two to three hours to feed?

  1. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    I already posted but just wanted to say that not waking LO didn't hurt my supply at all. She has generally only gotten up once or twice a night since the first two weeks (besides the four month sleep regression). At the beginning I'd pump when I felt super uncomfortable, but everything regulated and I've never had a problem at 5 months in.

  2. singingbee

    pomelo / 5073 posts

    I didn't set an alarm or anything, but yes, LO would wake up on her own wanting to be feed. Every now and then we would get a 4 or 5 hour stretch after she hit her birthweight, but yes, for the most part, we feed every 2-3 hours.

  3. babypugs

    persimmon / 1101 posts

    I set my alarm for every three hours, but that was definitely wishful thinking! She was always up way before that alarm went off, and most of the time I hadn't even been able to go to sleep from the last wake up since it took forever to get her down. Don't be scared, just prepared! It is tough, but you'll get through it.

  4. ElbieKay

    pomegranate / 3231 posts

    I am planning to do the every 3 hrs thing until he reaches his birth weight. After that he will sleep as long as he wants.

    That is generally the advice I have received from multiple sources. The birth weight issue is important, but after that you are in the clear!

  5. mdf106

    clementine / 828 posts

    I woke LO every three hours until the pediatrician said not to when he was at his discharge weight on day five, indicating that he had passed the low point and was gaining back weight. After that LO slept one 4-6 hour stretch, and his weight gain has been good. I have never had supply problems, even since going back to work. I continued to wake him to feed every three hours during the day.

  6. Brassgiraffe

    cherry / 185 posts

    Another vote for waking every three hours to eat until she regained birth weight, which for us was only a week.

  7. Mrs. Sketchbook

    GOLD / nectarine / 2884 posts

    I know this thread is super old but I wanted to say....in the hospital they may do this whether you want to or not! I went into recovery around 11 PM and they woke us up at 1:00 AM saying it was time for eating (he had nursed a few minutes after birth but he was mainly messing around). I was totally shocked. But I dutifully tickled my child's feet and put a washcloth on his head....he didn't want to feed only wanted to sleep. But the nurse is assigned to the mother and the baby so she/he is required to make sure that a mother nurses a certain amount while they are in recovery. They would come in every few hours and make a note of how long we nursed etc. This had the effect of making me so paranoid that I did wake to feed, although it was usually every 3-4 instead of 2-3. Once he got back to his weight I quit.

  8. raintreebee

    pear / 1531 posts

    Thanks, ladies. This is all very helpful. I have a meeting with our pediatrician next week so I'll be curious as to what she says about it. On the one hand, I totally get needing to feed frequently in the beginning, but waking the baby up all the time seems to go against my maternal instincts. It seems like this would have some neurological effects, but, as DH pointed out, babies are woken up all the time in the womb so I am likely over-thinking it.

  9. skipra

    pomegranate / 3350 posts

    In the very beginning we always set an alarm but except for the first night he always woke us up before it went off.

  10. Mrs. Sketchbook

    GOLD / nectarine / 2884 posts

    @raintreebee: oh one more thing, frequent nursing helps reduce the risk of breastfeeding jaundice. My LO was a touch jaundiced so perhaps that is why they emphasized it for us. Many hospitals want momma to feed baby and get all the bilirubin flushed out before they leave. And sometimes they'll push formula if they feel like nursing isn't going well, but don't don't anything you don't want to do! Your baby, your choices!

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