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I think that different things work for different mommy's and babies, and baby wearing isn't for everybody. I had the bjorn and I could only wear it for about a half hour until my back would start hurting, which was fine because LO was done with it by then and started getting fussy. So I ended up not wearing her that often, she was usually happier in the stroller anyway.

I only used my moby twice. We waited to wear our baby until we could use the moby without the infant insert.. I would keep trying with the moby. See if someone will help you?

@miranlee: I noticed a few differences between the two like the HAVA has a padded shoulder, less fabric to pull through the ring, padded rails, etc. It also came with a great DVD showing how to put baby in and adjust in different holds, which I found helpful.

@miranlee: Be sure to get the size for your frame (X-petite, petite, regular, long, x-long) - it makes a huge difference. If you aren't sure, the company that makes them (Baby Holdings) has their own store called Nurtured Family (www.nurturedfamily.com) and if you call them they are really helpful.