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So so sorry lady. Hugs
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So sorry for your loss. Glad you have your DH to be your support.
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry
hang in there lady - we are here for you!
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@LindsayInNY: So so sorry. Hugs.
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I'm so so sorry
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Oh honey I am so very sorry for you. I hope you have a sticky baby very soon. Hugs.
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{{{HUGS}}} I'm so sorry you have to experience this and for your loss.
Sounds like you've got a heck of a hubby there for you.
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Oh no!
I don't know what I would have done without my husband when I m/c'd. You'll get there, you will.
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Oh no!!! I am so sad this happened for you hun. I really hope your sticky baby isn't too far away!
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So sorry this is happening
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you have support from your husband and am hoping and praying you get your sticky baby soon.
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Oh sweet girl, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending so much love your way.
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i am so sorry. sending lots of hugs.
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I'm sorry for your loss
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Oh honey... I'm so sorry for your loss...
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I'm so sorry
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Aww, I really feel for you! If you need to meet up for a glass of wine, I am here!
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So sorry friend. Lots of hugs to you.
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Oh no, Lindsay..i'm so sorry!
*hugs*
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I'm so sorry to hear this...sending hugs to you.
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So sorry, I'm sure it's beyond disappointing
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I'm so so sorry
Sending you tons of hugs.
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Ugh, I am so so sorry! I'll be thinking about you guys!
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Oh Lindsay, I'm so so sorry. There are really no words, but you will get through this, especially with your amazing DH to lean on, and you will get pregnant again with a sticky baby! Sending you so many hugs and positive vibes
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I am so, so sorry. I know how devastating it is. Lean on those around you, and know that you WILL get there. Thinking of you
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hugs to you...
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Lots of us have been there so we know what it is like. Sorry for your loss.
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so sorry for your loss
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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After all that with my doctor's office last week, I found out my betas from Thursday were 48 (the nurse said they've been using a new lab and should've had the results on Friday but the lab sucks. Awesome.)... So this was inevitable. They're having me come in on Wednesday for a blood test again and, if necessary, a week later. I don't know what this means for TTC going forward now though...
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I am so sorry. You had the whole hive rooting for you but you also have us all here for support. Good luck with your journey.
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@LindsayInNY: First...I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a pregnancy is one of the worst things I've ever been through, so absolutely understand your feelings right now.
Second...right now, they're testing your blood to make sure that your HCG levels are returning to zero. If they don't, that might mean that you didn't fully miscarry and they may have to still do a D&C. Once they've determined that everything is back to zero, that's when they'll focus on your future for TTC. Don't wait for them to call you on anything. Keep following up with them and keep asking them what the next steps are. You said it perfectly in your other post that what's important to you isn't necessarily on the top of their priority list...so you have to make it the top of their priority list. Be proactive and keep asking questions. Don't let them slack off even for a second!
Lots of luck to you...and again...let me know if you need anything or want to hear about my experience!
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I'm so, so sorry.
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Hugs to you.
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@LindsayInNY: This is exactly what happened to me the first time I got pregnant. I had brown CM and thought a new cycle was starting and then I found out from my RE that my HCG was 5, so technically pregnant but not looking good. I continued brown spotting on and off for a few days and then eventually AF showed up.
The good thing is there's no reason, physically, to wait to TTC. My doctor had me to immediately into the next cycle. A couple cycles later we were PG again and I'm now 30 weeks.
I know it's really hard right now. You try for so long and you finally feel like you have a timeline for when you'll get your baby, and then it's just gone. It's such a tiny thing, the size of a poppy seed, and yet it held so much promise. I cried a lot. And then I went out and had sushi and some strong drinks.
This all happened last year around Thanksgiving. I think I found out 2 days before it I was PG, and then the day after I found out my beta was down to 0. And now this year at Thanksgiving DS should will mostly likely be here :). It seems now like it won't get better, but it will. A CP SUCKS and it sucks to hear this - but it's a good thing to know you and your DH can conceive together. It's just not much consolation to hear it right now.
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@2PeasinaPod: Thank you
I made an appointment for Wednesday for blood work. I called back and asked to see a doctor at that time and had to battle with the receptionist. My doctor is suppose to call me back now. She prescribed progesterone for my next cycle (assuming I was going to get a BFN) so there's clearly a need for it. Sigh. We'll see what happens from here...
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@LindsayInNY: So so sorry, friend. You've got a great support system at home with DH and you have the whole hive here. I wish there weren't so many of us who've had this experience, but I'm glad we all have each other. I know its hard not to, but don't give up hope just yet! Praying for your body and heart to heal quickly.
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@ShootingStar: When I went for my annual exam at 9DPO, I noticed brown CM and assumed AF was coming. My dr said that wasn't necessarily the case. 13DPO was my BFP at home. I went for blood test confirmation at 17DPO which turns out was the 48 hcg. The brown CM had stopped by that time but started again at 19DPO. This was bound to happen and I don't think anything could've prevented it. My doctor prescribed progesterone prior to my BFP so I think that's the issue... She's suppose to call me back now so I know whether to use it this cycle or not. I guess the positive side of this happening so early is that we shouldn't have to wait to TTC again? Did you ever find out the cause of your brown CM? Did you have to do anything differently? DH is being optimistic and, like you said, it glad that it means we *can* get pregnant. So that's a start.
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I'm so sorry to hear this
Sending you lots of 
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