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  1. ShootingStar

    coconut / 8472 posts

    @LindsayInNY: So I think at first the brown CM was implantation bleeding. It happened around 9 or 10 DPO and at first I thought it was indicating AF was about to start, since I always spot the day before. I was kind of upset because it was my first ovulatory cycle when I knew which day I ovulated and I thought I had an short LP problem. I think it stopped and then started getting my typical spotting. I remember I called my RE to get in for the typical CD3 testing (they always ask you to call on CD1 which I assumed would be the next day) and asked if I could do CD2 due to traveling for the holiday. But by the time I went in 2 days later, it had never fully started, just spotting off and on. I think I never had enough HCG/progesterone to keep me from shedding my lining, hence the spotting.

    I didn't have to do anything differently at all the next time, it was exactly the same. My DH had the same attitude, as did my parents (who knew what was going on because we were at their house when I found out). It's great if you look at the positive side, because it really is one. For us it meant we didn't need to go the extra lengths with trying IUI. I just wasn't ready for that to make me feel better at the time.

  2. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    @ShootingStar: I worry that the progesterone is the underlying issue here and the cause of the pre-AF spotting every cycle. I guess only time will tell going forth now... DH has been great. Neither parents know. I don't think mine even know we're TTC and his would be devastated. So it's just him and HB for support right now which I'm so grateful for. I'm trying to just be positive about everything which helps prevent the tears!

  3. PurpleUnicorn

    persimmon / 1035 posts

    I am so sorry

  4. nana87

    cantaloupe / 6171 posts

    Aww I am so sorry! Hopefully the progesterone will work and you'll have a sticky baby soon!

  5. T-Mom

    honeydew / 7488 posts

    So sorry to hear this news

  6. cascademom

    coconut / 8861 posts

    Hugs, I'm so sorry to hear this.

  7. Mrsbells

    squash / 13199 posts

    @LindsayInNY: I 'm so so sorry this has happened, I genuinely feel sad for your loss and wish there was something helpful I could say sending you big hugs

  8. meredithNYC

    pomegranate / 3314 posts

    I am really, really sorry to hear this news. I hope that you guys are able to get some answers and move forward in your journey, though I know you probably just need to process everything right now.

  9. Vegmama

    pear / 1799 posts

    I'm so sorry you're going through this. Sending a million hugs!!!

  10. Lately

    cherry / 131 posts

    So sad to log on here today and see the news. Big hugs.

  11. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    Thank you everyone for all the supportive messages! I think the crying is out of my system and I'm back to a more optimistic place for going forth...

  12. dojo

    persimmon / 1223 posts

    I'm so sorry for your loss

  13. pui

    bananas / 9899 posts

    I'm so so sad about this. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you are able to find some answers soon.

    TTC is nothing like I expected either... it's very hard.

  14. HLK208

    pineapple / 12234 posts

    I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs.

  15. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    So sorry for your loss.

  16. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    so sorry for your loss. hugs!

  17. Happygal

    pomelo / 5000 posts

    Glad you're at a positive place! So sorry to hear about your loss.

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