I am deciding between 2 different crib bedding sets. One is pink and girly, and the other is gender neutral but still pretty. I love the pattern for the gender neutral, but I'm wondering if it is wishful thinking that we could use the same bedding for baby #2 eventually. Does it hold up well, or do you feel like you have to toss the sheets after baby #1 has already slept in them for a couple years?