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@FliegepilzHut: They weren't mentioned at this time. She wants to try out the three months of progesterone, and then I have a follow up in 6 months if we're still not pregnant by then
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@MaryM: I do chart, but haven't been able to much lately because my toddler's sleep is so awful. But I know I've looked at that chart before. I just.can't.help.myself. (BFN at 8dpo today). I'm going to test with an FRER tomorrow. If that's negative, I'll be sad
I know it could still be positive after that, but I've gotten BFPs at 9 dpo with both other pregnancies.I'm SO glad they figured out the low progesterone. I hope that helps with your sticky baby!
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@MaryM: Sounds like a plan!
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@MaryM: Good to have a plan. What progesterone will you be on?
@Jess1483: I will be keeping fingers and toes crossed for you and a BFP this month. xx
I wish I had more exciting stuff to mention. I wish I was ovulating already, lol.
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@jaguar: prometrium I think
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@MaryM: Ah, gotcha!
If (hopefully WHEN!) I ovulate, I need to be on the progesterone pessaries twice daily from that day. Last time I took them from transfer day, this time she wants it earlier. So we'll see if that helps.
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Ugh, bfn at 9 dpo with FRER. I know I'm not totally out, but I've gotten
with both other pregnancies at this point. Still hoping, but not much.
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@Jess1483: Sorry...
Will you test again or just wait?
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@FliegepilzHut: I'm obsessive, so I'm sure I'll test tomorrow. And the next day. I have two more FRERs and a digital (leftover from confirming mc). I was looking at stats, an d 40% of women who are pregnant will get a negative at 9 dpo, so I'm a bit more hopeful now.
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@Jess1483: That's good, then! Wishing you
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@MaryM: I am glad to hear you have a plan. Fingers crossed that this is exactly what you need.
@Jess1483: This is why I love the dollar store tests! After my first CP, though, I now wait until after AF. Good luck, lady!
As for me, I am on CD 11 (had go look it up.) Of the two cycles I confirmed O, it was cd 13 and 15 so O is probably coming up soon. I have been pretty stressed out, though, so it might delay things. We shall see.
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@simplyfelicity: Sorry you've been so stressed
Better get to it, though, just in case So, I did a bad thing and dug the test out about 15 minutes after I took it. Super faint line, not even sure it's pink. But I also didn't wait the full 5 minutes to look at the test the first time. So...that doesn't really mean anything, haha! I'm anxious to test tomorrow. I'm tempted to test this afternoon, even though that's stupid. If this isn't my cycle, I'm def ordering wondfos. I clearly have a problem.
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@Jess1483: Please keep us updated.
So....even though I said I wouldn't, I used an opk just now and it was very very negative. For some reason, it actually bothered me. The cycle of my second
, I got a positive at 11 dpo, so I was hoping for a positive. I am having a bit of a rough day with my loss. No tears or meltdowns just extra sad today.
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@simplyfelicity: Give it a couple of days...I bet O is still coming! Hope your day gets better soon!
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@FliegepilzHut: You are probably right. I guess I was already feeling sad today and the the negative test was like the cherry on top. Anyway, how are you?
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@simplyfelicity: I'm doing okay. Talked with DH about how frustrating it is that one of his co-teachers (that I met recently) is exactly as pregnant as I would have been, had this last pregnancy worked out..which he totally doesn't get. Oh well. Hopefully I'll have a good plan in place for my FET at the beginning of next week. Sending hugs and I hope that we both get our
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@Jess1483: That sounds promising!
@simplyfelicity: I hope you O soon!!! xx
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As for me, I've been watching a friend of mine get positive pee sticks over the last few days, and am so happy/sad. I'm glad for her, as she's been trying for 12+ months for another little one... but I'm sad for me. I just want a SHOT at being pregnant. I'm jealous of people who even get to try once a month. How sad is that?
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@jaguar: I'm sorry...I hate that other peoples' joy sometimes feels like such a downer. IF sucks!
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@Jess1483: Soooooo?!?!
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@FliegepilzHut: @simplyfelicity:
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P.S. I'm officially terrified now.
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@Jess1483: Aaaaaaahhhhhhhh! Congratulations! What dpo are you?
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@simplyfelicity: 10 dpo. And thank you!
I want to be really sensitive here, because I know everyone will have mixed emotions (myself included), but I'd still like to hang around if you all don't mind. I won't talk about my pregnancy here (I will start the pregnant after loss thread), but I definitely don't want to make anyone uncomfortable. Please wall me if that's the case, and I'll disappear gracefully.
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@Jess1483: That's a great line for 10 dpo.
I think that is a great idea (for all of us) as we want to keep this thread a sensitive place. Jess, no one wants you to leave! Hopefully, more of us will trickle over to the "pregnancy after loss" thread you create very, very soon. But, in the meantime, it's great to have you here. -
@Jess1483: Congrats, lady!
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@simplyfelicity: I have no doubt I will see you all there soon
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@FliegepilzHut: I totally understand. My husband has so much hope for us for the future that he seems to wonder why I get SO hung up on the losses. He has said nothing like that but I can just tell. I know we have great chances for the future, but that doesn't make the loss itself easier. I mourn this pregnancy/baby. I would be nearly halfway through the pregnancy at this point. That stings a bit. I hope the meeting/planning with your RE goes swimmingly.
@jaguar: I am sorry, it sucks trying to be happy for someone else when you are hurting. I know that them having a baby doesn't take away my chances to have one and that I don't know their story either but it still stings. I hid yet another person today on facebook. I don't even have that many friends (I don't like to have people I don't actually know as "friends") and I have seen three or four in the last week. At least the March announcements are over...those hurt the most, especially a cousin who is due the same day I was.
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@simplyfelicity: Yeah...it's so hard to know what to feel at times. We have every right to be optimistic, though...sometimes it just takes a while!
Thanks for the well wishes!
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@FliegepilzHut: You are absolutely right. I am just having a little trouble being positive this weekend, thank you for sharing the optimism!
I found these and had to share...
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@simplyfelicity: Ahh...I especially like the Goethe quote!
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@simplyfelicity: Thanks hon. And for the quotes too. xx
@Jess1483: Congratulations.
CD10 and just praying for a shot at this cycle now. I feel really nervous, like it's already destined to fail. I hate that, I'm never usually this negative, but I just feel like all my positivity is gone right now.
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@jaguar: I'll send all my positivity your way. Prayers and good thoughts and baby dust are all headed your way!
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@jaguar: Wishing you ALL the luck and sending good thoughts! Is there anything you can do over the next few weeks to calm your mind and make the wait easier?
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@jaguar: I'm sorry the future doesn't feel promising right now. I feel the same way. Just sad and uncertain. One thing I have learned is that feelings mean very little in the grand scheme of things and aren't usually based on logic (at least for me.) I hope you and I are so very wrong in our feelings and we have some amazing things coming up soon. Well, I hope all of us do.
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@Jess1483: Congrats!
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I know it feels like positive news is so far away for all of us. I remember crying hysterically the day before I got my BFP with my daughter because I "just knew" it was going to be negative the next day. Your luck and your future can and will change in an instant and make it worth all of this hardship.
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@Jess1483: Thanks chick. x
@FliegepilzHut: Just sticking to my exercise plan, lots of keeping my mind busy. Plus, I'm still on solo-parenting duties until Wednesday, then again the following week. Exhausted!
@simplyfelicity: *hugs* I'm sorry that it's a similar feeling for you too. I really hope you're right. I just don't think my heart can cope with too much more waiting/sadness. Wish something so special and amazing didn't cause so much heartache.
@Tidybee: Let's hope so. xx
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@simplyfelicity: @Tidybee: You both have such nice perspectives!
Thanks for sharing!@jaguar: Sounds like one heck of a week! Take care of you!
I hope we all have cause for some unmitigated joy very soon!
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Another positive pregnancy test from a friend today. Oh, this hurts.
I know it could still be positive after that, but I've gotten BFPs at 9 dpo with both other pregnancies.
with both other pregnancies at this point. Still hoping, but not much.
Will you test again or just wait?
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