Talk me out of or into this situation. I just want to bounce this idea off on more people

I feel we are just priced out of the houses we would be interested in the longer we wait. To be comfortable with making an offer and having some cash on hand for emergencies I would need 100k more to buy a house we want.

I just learned about cash out refinances, were you basically refinance your house and take cash out during the process. If I think our place is worth what it says on housing websites we can take out about 250k and still have 20% equality afterwards. I’m thinking of taking out 100-150k so this should be no problem to get approved for.

My rate is 3.37% which I won’t get again … looking at 3.7ish% right now, it seems. So there is that.

Why not sell our townhouse? I don’t really want to be in limbo so I think taking out equality and looking at our own pace (aka not rushed) seems like the best plan for us instead of trying to sell and buy at the same time.

Any thoughts?