This a repost from a due date board but I found out I was pregnant at 10dpo and took 6 pregnancy tests within a three day period including a digi and they were all positive not dark, but still positive. I am now at 16dpo without any spotting or bleeding. I took a Frer yesterday and the line was so very light but I had had a lot of water. I had a feeling things didn't look good, so I went to sleep and woke up four hours later and took my last digi and its negative (this was on a three-four hour hold with very little liquid in the late evening.) I was still having pg symptoms even yesterday. I am so confused and so hurt. I would go to the doctor but because of insurance things, I can't go until May 1st. I am guessing its just a matter of time before I start bleeding. I just feel so hollow...this was my first time TTC ever.
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Oh no, that's awefull! I hope that everything is ok
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I'm sorry you're going through this...I haven't had a c/p but I have had a m/c so I can imagine how hard this is for you. Sending you lots of hugs
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Oh no, I'm so, so sorry.
This is how it happened for me, too. I took a regular test and got a faint line so I took a digi and it said pregnant. Two days later, I took another regular test and there was no line - I figured my pee much have been very diluted and got on with my day. Later that day, I started bleeding. I was completely devastated.
Be kind to yourself and let yourself grieve. It's such a terrible thing to go through. You will get your sticky baby. xx
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Hugs. A loss is a loss so there's nothing wrong with grieving. I've had a vanishing twin at 9 weeks and a miscarriage at 7 weeks. Take your time and grieve.
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I'm so sorry
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I am so sorry
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Thanks, ladies, any idea when I should begin bleeding?
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@simplyfelicity: So sorry to hear this. If your levels have dropped enough they aren't being picked up on the tests then I assume it shouldn't be long.
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So sorry
With my cp, I had no indication it was happening at all. I found out when I went for my first appointment at 10 weeks.
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@Weagle: I am so terribly sorry to hear of your loss. Did you start bleeding shortly after you found out? I just want to be out of this limbo phase.
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@simplyfelicity: I didn't bleed for an entire week after my second chemical. My levels had dropped to a 2, but it was still another week..
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@Mrs. Jump Rope: Thanks. Is the first day of your bleed after a CP essentially the first day of your cycle?
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@simplyfelicity: my doctors did!
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@simplyfelicity: I'm sorry for your loss.
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@simplyfelicity: I didn't. Actually based on some measurements and assessments my OB did, it was recommended to go ahead with a D&C because of a risk of infected tissue. So we went in for that that the next day.
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@simplyfelicity: I was charting and I counted the 1st day of CP bleeding as Cycle Day 1. I ovulated on CD 14 as usual so for me, at least, that was correct.
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@simplyfelicity: Oh no, I am so sorry you are going through a cp. I hope it'll be over quickly so you can keep on trying! Hugs
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Thinking about you.
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I'm so sorry. I am going through the exact same thing, so I know how you feel. ((hugs))
If you don't have insurance until May 1st, I would wait it out until then. Either you'll get AF, or you can ask for a beta after the 1st. I know that seems like forever, but it's really just 6 days. I am in the same position - I have an appointment Wednesday, so I am just waiting to see what's up then.
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I am so sorry! I just went through a CP earlier this month.
For me I had very faint lines on frer but I just thought it was because it was so early. On the digi never said pregnant so I thought that was a bad sign. My HCG level was low then went back to get it checked again it doubled then dropped and I started my AF - about a week later than normal.
I'm thinking of you!!
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Aww I was so sad to see this post. Sending you big hugs. A loss is a loss.
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@simplyfelicity: I am really sorry you are going through this
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I'm so sorry for your loss ((hugs)).
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I'm so sorry you're going through this
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I'm so sorry you are going through this.
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((hugs)) I really hope it's not a CP because it really sucks to go through (having been there myself). Thinking of you either way.
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I'm so sorry.
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So sorry
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I'm so sorry you are going through this. Much
your way.
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*hugs* I'm so sorry!!
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@simplyfelicity: I'm so, so sorry!! This happened to me last week - it's awful. I'm thinking of you and sending you virtual hugs. For me, the bleeding started about 2.5 days after things starting look dicey on the tests. Had awful cramps before the bleeding, so I kinda figured it would start. I counted (on advice of the wonderful ladies here) the 1st day of bleeding as 1st day of next cycle. My experience was similar in the length (4-5 days bleeding) to AF, but much heavier than normal and more uncomfortable. I did go to the dr to get levels tested, and got the results (too low/negative) the same day I started bleeding.
Thinking of you and wishing you clarity and comfort! Be kind and gentle with yourself. xo
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I'm so sorry, hon.
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Thank you all. Since then, I have had minimal spotting. I really just want to get this "show on the road," I know that sounds awful.
After doing some reading, it looks like I had very early miscarriage, as in the egg was fertilized and implanted but it wasn't progressing and died off. My positive tests ranged from 10dpo-14dpo so I am sure it actually implanted. It's great that I can get pregnant and I am sure it was just a chromosomal defect and stopped. I just can't stop crying...I really wanted this baby. In 6 short days, DH and I did so much planning, day dreaming, hoping and wishing.
Anyway, I know I am not the first nor the last but I have learned my lesson about early testing the hard way and will likely wait until AF is due in the future.
I am so sorry to hear of other Bee's loses and I appreciate all the virtual hugs.
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@simplyfelicity: Hugs.... its so hard because no matter when you test, your life changes instantly! And I've learned my lesson (twice now) that its just as hard no matter when it happens.
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@septca: Hugs to you, too. I am so sorry...I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy (not that I have any.) Thank you for your support, thinking of you.
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@T.H.O.U.: Thank you for your support. I am not sure if you are TTC or not, but do you delay testing now due to your experiences?
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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@simplyfelicity: Sadly my second loss was after we had already seen a heartbeat and had a good appointment. So it really wouldn't have mattered at all when I tested. Thankfully I am currently 23 weeks though, so like you said, you know you can get pregnant and hopefully you can get past this and move forward.
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@T.H.O.U.: Yeah, I think I just need some time to process and develop a less crazy approach to TTC. I can't do this every month. I am so sorry to hear of your loss but happy for you that you have your sticky baby.
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