I know for us, having sound biblical teachings/resources is important. Our pastors have 4 grown children all loving God & serving in the church, never having that "I hate you.." rebellious stage we see so many teens have (not to mention most young adults LEAVE the church upon graduating) so I know that "it" can be done.... We look to them and we have a handful of pastors that we really like their stuff.

Joe Mcgee is one that we absolutely LOVE! He is so sound in his teaching & his knowledge of the Word is amazing! He's absolutely hilarious as well so it's always fun to hear him. His "Biblical Parenting 101" DVD series is something that we frequently watch (probably 3-4 times a year) and I tell you I am STILL learning stuff from it 4 years later! We have his "Blended Family" series too as well as a couple other marriage/family series.
(you can find his resources on his site http://www.joemcgeeministries.com/html/resources.html)

We also love Jimmy Evans... yea he's more about marriage, well all about marriage, BUT since our marriage and being a good husband/wife is such an important part of creating a godly environment for our kids I definitely count it in my parenting arsenal! I mean G & P (and all our future kids) are going to learn how to be good spouses from us so it counts right?!
(You can get his stuff here: http://store.marriagetoday.com/)

Are there any other Christian mommas that look to/rely on specific pastors to help in this amazing job of parenting? I'd love to grow our arsenal!