I know there are a number of threads on this topic but none exactly addressed my question, and I'm putting my registry together. Would you recommend sharing a single diaper bag or each having our own?

I would pick something that is more like a purse that FI wouldn't want to carry. If we pick a single bag it will likely be a messenger style - I'm not crazy about that but I don't hate it.

I'm just wondering what fits people's lifestyle better? I'm envisioning, for example, one of us doing drop off and one pick up and then him being stuck with my pink bag or whatever I choose!

For those that have individual bags, do you do a lot of shuffling stuff from one bag to the other, and carrying an empty bag? We will both be working out of the home.