I have a neutral crib set that I still adore (Petit Tresor Nesting) . . . but I must confess that I really thought I was having a boy. Now that I know I am having a girl, and planning on dark nursery furniture, I am wondering if the combintation will be a little too masculine (DH really doesn't want light/white furniture, which makes sense, considering the rest of our house). Now, I am leaning toward a neutral but more feminine set (Spa Pom Pon Play). GAH! Anyone else find themselves in this boat?