I actually didn't cry after either of my LO's were born. I felt emotional, because there were a million things running through my head, but didn't shed any tears. I always imagined I would, but then again I'm not a super emotional person. DH didn't cry either, but with our first I think he was s little bit closer to that point than I was.
Did you cry after your LO was born? What about your SO?
pomelo / 5073 posts
Yes. Until she cried, i didn't really believe it was happening. I think he did too.
nectarine / 2521 posts
@Bao: I did. It was that really tired, emotional crying because I was worn out and so happy he was finally out and in my arms! I'm not a person that cries easily either, so it surprised me, but when it comes to anything with him, I'm an emotional mess 
cantaloupe / 6164 posts
Oh yes. I'm a big time crier though. When she was crowning, they had me reach down and feel her hair and that's when I started. It was like "OH MY GOSH, it's a real baby and she's almost here!!" Then, I lost it as soon a I saw her. Dan actually cried even more than I did!
grapefruit / 4213 posts
No tears, just fear. She wasn't breathing. I remember everything was quiet, so quiet. No one was speaking, like we were all holding our breath. I asked DH to tell me what was going on and why she wasn't making any noises because I was being stitched up and couldn't see anything. When she did cry and her color returned it was pure relief.
nectarine / 2115 posts
I expected that I would, but I didn't. I was too exhausted to cry! That said, I did cry later, when I was alone with her and it finally sunk in that my sweet girl was finally in my arms. 
persimmon / 1431 posts
I cried unexpectedly. Until I actually saw her I didn't believe I was having a baby. My SO didnt cry. I think he was in shock.
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
I big ugly girl cried. But I'm a very emotional person. DH didn't cry but he says he was close...I've never seen him cry. He's not emotional at all
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
I don't think I did. It was more like disbelief, like oh! She's here! I cried later, and I might have cried during labor a bit, but not when she was actually born.
coffee bean / 49 posts
@Foodnerd81: I felt the same! I cried later, but my initial reaction was shock and relief that the pushing was over. I think I was the last person in the room to realize she was out!
pomelo / 5258 posts
I thought I would but I didn't. DH did. I think I was just too damn exhausted after being up for days.
cantaloupe / 6885 posts
I thought I would but didn't - I was so exhausted and happy she was there but it all felt surreal. Dh did though, which I didn't expect since he's not a crier!
honeydew / 7235 posts
Yes! I barely remember but it was a long labor and the tears were of relief and wonder to meet my son.
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
I cried when my first was born but not the second. With the second I think it was in shock! It happened so fast!
DH cried both times. Only handful of times I've ever seen him cry.
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
Nope! I cried for the better part of my labor because my epidural wore off but I was too shocked to cry when he was born. I got a little teary eyed when DH did when he first held him though!
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
I teared up but didn't cry. Delivering the placenta was really painful for me so I was sorta distracted by that!
pomegranate / 3375 posts
I did not. I was overwhelmed with JOY and happiness. We were TG, and I was just exclaiming, "I knew you were a girl!!!" ... My husband started sobbing as soon as her touched her head. He caught her (I delivered on hands and knees), and was crying as he held her for the first time and told me she was a girl. It was sooo special, and I REALLY wish we would have gotten it on video!
grapefruit / 4418 posts
Yes. I didn't expect to but it was so surreal! Pretty sure DH did too!
hostess / papaya / 10219 posts
We both did. I definitely cried a lot. Both from happiness and exhaustion.
coconut / 8279 posts
No, he had a collapsed lung and was taken immediately, I was scared and yelled at DH to go with him.
pear / 1786 posts
Yes! So many tears of joy & relief! A little from fear too because I felt like I couldn't breathe due to some of the meds from my c-section.
eggplant / 11824 posts
Nope; haha my OB said I looked "shell shocked" which well, I was! I can't remember if my husband cried, but I think so (?)
eggplant / 11408 posts
Nope, and I felt super guilty for not crying. I cried when I was holding her later, though.
pineapple / 12526 posts
No. I was so drugged up and tired and overwhelmed at that point, I could hardly feel.
grapefruit / 4056 posts
I bawled because I could hear my coworkers resuscitating him. Then I cried with relief when he finally cried.
papaya / 10560 posts
Nope! Not with either. Cracking lots of jokes, especially after the second.
apricot / 456 posts
Nope. I'd gone through 36 hours of labor and an emergency c-section. Plus I was having a bad reaction to the anesthetic that made me shake uncontrollably.
My DH cried a little bit, and for a long while after the birth, I thought he had teared up at seeing our baby for the first time. It turned out he was crying because of me and the awful state I was in.
pomegranate / 3643 posts
I don't think so? I have dry eyes, so it's hard for me to cry, haha. But I probably did something like it. Ami remember a lot of gasping and saying "my baby!" and holding them.
bananas / 9973 posts
Yes. My eyes welled up and I could barely see anything while they were lifting her to my chest. I didn't think I would, but I was overcome with a flood of emotions and love.
nectarine / 2973 posts
I didn't. The drugs used during my csection made me really sleepy and I could barely keep my eyes open!
bananas / 9357 posts
Didn't cry with either of them. Surprised me that i didn't because I am a crier.
eggplant / 11287 posts
I don't think so. The pain was just too much to be able to even pay attention to my emotions at the moment.
persimmon / 1328 posts
I didn't and was very surprised, I'm a big crier. I think it was too surreal! DH was a mess though!
persimmon / 1367 posts
Nope, too exhausted from 2+ days in labor. I didn't cry until a few days later.
nectarine / 2994 posts
Yes, both dh and I did as soon as she was put on my stomach and heard her cry
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
As soon as a nurse said "He has a head full of hair!" I started to cry.
Then they pulled him out and I heard him cry and I seriously was bawling, sobbing, ugly crying to the extreme. I was so happy though. Haha but I did not anticipate myself losing it like that.
I think my OB was worried. When he was stitching me up he was trying to reassure me everything was okay. I said "No I'm happy!" And he sounded relieved. Haha
pomelo / 5791 posts
I think I cried more tears gearing up to have him. I had a medically necessary scheduled c-section and I was scared out of my mind when my husband had to leave the room for the spinal meds. I mean, I was almost hyperventilating I was so freaked out. By the time DS was pulled out, I think I was just all over the place mentally that I didn't actually cry.
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