My friend just got engaged to a guy who is a III and her future in laws told them that their first born son HAS to be a IV.
Did you follow or break any family naming traditions?
My friend just got engaged to a guy who is a III and her future in laws told them that their first born son HAS to be a IV.
Did you follow or break any family naming traditions?
cantaloupe / 6687 posts
We're considering it...my husband, his dad, and his grandfather all share the same first name...but they all have different middle names (so they aren't junior, III). At first my husband really wanted to continue this if we had a boy but now he's not so sure...he's open to other names now that we're TTC
coconut / 8279 posts
We have a family name for a middle name but I gave J my dads first name as his middle. I kind of wish I put both in there to follow tradition but DH thought it was too long of a name.
clementine / 995 posts
DH is a II. We will definitely not continue the tradition if we have a son. DH thinks it is too confusing to have 3 people in our family with the same name.
GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts
There are naming traditions in my family but not down my line. I'm ambivalent about it. DH did ask me to follow Jewish tradition and not name R after a living relative.
nectarine / 2667 posts
My husband is, technically, a III. No one acknowledges that though. We didn't give our son that name, but no one told us we should or "had" to.
We actually gave our son the family name from our good friend's family tradition. Our friend is FirstName MiddleName LastName the 17th. He named his son MiddleName only and broke the tradition in his family. We also named our son MiddleName.
ETA: MiddleName is so rare, we'd never heard of it before and I never find in on any name lists or websites or even Google searches.
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
Ish?
Both D and his dad's middle name is Evans, and it was his paternal grandmother's maiden name. We would have passed it on as a middle name, but decided we liked it better as a first name, minus the S.
His middle name is my MIL's maiden name, which she gave as a middle name to a BIL, so I guess sort of there, too? But not really a tradition yet, I guess, and not passed down directly from D.
My side doesn't have any family naming traditions.
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
Did not follow the tradition which is paternal grandparents, then maternal grandparent for first names of children.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
If someone told me I HAD to name my child something that's pretty much a guarantee I will not name my child that.
My mom and I have the same middle name and I thought about using it for my daughter but ended up using my grandmother's name instead.
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
Kind of. My dad's side of the family has the family name of Earl, starting with my great grandfather Earl, grandpa JEARLD, great uncle PEARL, and dad JEARLD (who goes by his middle name). They intentionally spelled Jearld that way so it has EARL in it.
I brought it up to my dad a long time ago that I might use Earl in my future sons name one day and he said absolutely not. Haha! He doesn't like it, even though he had it picked out as a middle name for my sister and I had we been boys.
So I'm giving my son the same middle name as my dad instead. Reminds me of that Dixie Chicks song, Goodbye Earl. Lol
This is the first male in my bloodline since my dad. Unfortunately after my sister and I got married our maiden name has died off completely. There's no living relatives to pass on my maiden name. Kind of sad. Unfortunately it doesn't work as a first or middle name or I would have used it.
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
@MamaMoose: Haha yeah same. If someone told me I had to name my child something, that would guarantee I wouldn't.
pomegranate / 3350 posts
DH's family usually gives the first born son their dad's middle name. I don't know how far back it goes and no one mentioned or pressured us to use it so we didn't. If we end up ever going for a third and it turns out to be another boy maybe we will consider it or a variation.
pomegranate / 3604 posts
guys in my SO's family go by their middle name instead of their first and he has expressed a wish to keep that going.
coconut / 8430 posts
We didn't give our LO a Chinese middle name. She has an unofficial Chinese name though. I feel guilty but only a tiny bit.
coconut / 8475 posts
HEAVILY.
Our son is named after my FIL and his middle name is DH's first name. Both of these are highly traditional in the middle-eastern culture.
coconut / 8861 posts
Sort of. When we visited DH's family when LO was 7-8 months old, his uncle mentioned how one of his daughters (DH's cousin) has a middle name of a family maiden name. LO has DH's grandparents' last name as a middle name.
For our next LO, it'll have my family's middle name conventions.
bananas / 9118 posts
Nope, no traditions to follow. I doubt my husband would follow it even if there was.
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